If you are just tuning in to this blog - this entry is a continuation of the posts - 'Not All Ghosts Are Out to Get You' and 'Phillip the Active Ghost' in that order. Please read them first so you can get the entire story of our family ghost.
Phillip was really amazing. Being psychic and a paranormal investigator/researcher - I've never come across a ghost like him. There wasn't a day or night that went by that Phillip didn't let us know he was with us. Phillip went way past the normal ghostly haunting actions of dimming lights, hearing footsteps, or seeing shadows. He interacted with us - all of us. He showed his feelings in several ways. He was protective and he definitely had a great sense of humor.
At this point, I knew Phillip was a male and that he was a young person - I didn't really know much more about him. I did know that he meant no harm and he just wanted to be loved and to have a family. Phillip played with the kids every day. They would tell me when Phillip was with them and I could see if for myself most of the time. When they were on the swings, one of the empty swings would swing by itself. Toys would move, game pieces would advance with no physical touch, balls would bounce, and you could hear extra footsteps when one of the kids would run.
While we are on the subject ghost play - there is a story I want to share with you that definitely showed Phillips sense of humor at my expense. My son had this toy - it was a 'Lost in Space' robot toy that had recorded messages that would play when you would push a button. One night - and I am a night owl so it was pretty late, I was going about my business and I checked on the kids. Everyone was sound asleep but when I went to my son's room, I peeped my head in the doorway and I was startled when that toy robot went off. "Warning Will Robinson! Warning Will Robinson! Intruder approaching, intruder approaching!" That was what it said! I jumped for a second but then figured that perhaps the batteries were getting low and from previous experience, I know that when batteries get ready to die, it could set off a toy. I laughed it off and went about my business. Later on, I did another round of checks - yes I'm a crazy mom who loves to check on the kids all the time but that stemmed from an issue my son had when he was first born. So everything was fine but when I peeked into my son's room again - the same thing happened. That robot went off saying the same thing. The robot has about 5 or 6 different sayings but it choose the same one. I remember thinking that I am going to have to change the batteries the next day.
Ok, so three times is the charm right? This was certainly the case here. Right before I went to bed, I did my last round of checks. Yes, you probably guessed it - when I went back to my son's room, the robot went off again saying the same line. I had to admit, after the second time it went off, I was very suspicious that Phillip was behind the mischievous act. The robot never went off any other time - only when I walked into the room. I decided to take the batteries out of the toy so it wouldn't keep going off. When I opened the toy, there were no batteries in it! I laughed and spoke out loud, "OK, I get it - good joke!" After I acknowledged that I knew it was him that was behind the joke, the robot never did that again. That was only one of many funny jokes that Phillip delivered to us.
One day, when the husband and kids were off to work and school, I was outside talking to my next door neighbor. I was facing her house and she was facing mine. After a few minutes of chatting, she kept looking at my house and then back at me, several times. I couldn't help but notice and I guess she saw that I was starting to become concerned with her behavior. Before I could ask her if there was anything wrong, she asked me if one of the kids stayed home from school in which I replied that they were all in school. She asked if I had a guest but I said no. Of course, at this time, I knew what she was looking at and it was hard not to chuckle.
She told me that she saw a person watching at us talking through my family room window but of course the second those words left her mouth, he was gone. At that point I couldn't help but give a little laugh and just said, "Oh, yea, that would be my ghost." The look on her face was priceless and I'm not really sure she knew what to make of it but it was certain that she saw him."
It wasn't long before word of our ghost spread around the neighborhood and with my kids friends. Most of them loved Phillip and some were a bit scared but they knew he was nice. They just didn't like it when he was a little too active.
People were afraid to come in. There were too many eye witnesses that spread the word. We kindly explained to Phillip that people just didn't understand him because to them, he is invisible and when he does things, it frightens them. We told him lovingly that he was a part of our family and that we loved it when he interacted with us but if he could just not let others know he was around, that would be appreciated. Phillip was super awesome because he complied without any rebellion. Still, he couldn't help himself - he still had that prankster part of him that he just needed to express.
I was sitting at my kitchen table with a friend one afternoon - just enjoying some tea and good conversation. My youngest daughter was on the floor playing with her toys. In my kitchen, the table sat against a half wall and you could see out into my living room so it was easy to see the living room wall. Out of nowhere, a gigantic black silhouette of an octopus went across my living room wall and left out the window of the living room door. I saw it and it really surprised me but I had to keep my composure. I sincerely do not know how my friend didn't see a thing but she was busy talking away and I was facing the direction where I had a full view of the wall. Still, one glance and my friend would have seen it all. My daughter must have seen it too because she crawled over to me as fast as her little self could go.
It was my anniversary so my husband and I made plans to spend the night out for a romantic evening. We got a babysitter although my oldest daughter was just about the right age to sit the kids, but we were going to be quite a distance away so we wanted an older sitter. The girl that was babysitting for us asked if she could bring her younger sister who was about 14. The girls were very sweet and I knew the girl and her family - she was a very responsible 18 year old girl, and her little sister was so sweet. They did ask about our ghost and we told them not to ask him to show himself. As long as they left him along, they would never know that we had a ghost. Phillip was great that way!
I guess curiosity got the better of them. At around 1 in the morning, I get a frantic phone call from our babysitter. She was very distraught and told us that we had to get home right away and that if we didn't get home soon, they were going to leave the kids there by themselves. I assured her that we would get home as fast as possible but we had over an hour drive home.
When we got home they were not as upset and the kids managed to calm them down. Our babysitter told us that she wanted proof that there was really a ghost in our home so she asked him to let them know he was there and he certainly took that invitation to jump on some action. He immediately started turning lights on and off. Things were moving and the thing that got them the most disturbed was when they saw the little sister's hair moving by itself. Phillip liked the girl and was playing with her hair. My kids asked him to calm down and he did but he was still lingering there. We paid her and her sister and they told us that they really liked us but to please never ask us to babysit again.
Stay tuned for the conclusion of this story about our awesome ghost Phillip.
Today I wanted to talk to you about something that is very scary and real in our world. It is a different kind of spirit. It is very malevolent and unfortunately, it has touched every life in this world - some more than others.
This is the evil entity that is destroying our precious home - our world - mother Earth - Gaia. It in turn, is destroying us and our spirits.
I promise I'll continue my true story about Daniel for those that are waiting.
This world is truly led and controlled by evil - if you can't see that everywhere you go and in everything surrounding your everyday life, then you must be in denial.
Our world is being destroyed on purpose right in front of us. Our lives are full or strife, complications, distractions, misery, heartache, financial distraught, illness and catastrophe. Just waking up and getting out of bed is becoming harder and harder to do. Lives are so full crap, that humans do not 'live' - they exist, and not well at that.
Ok, so there are people that may not feel that way but in working with people all the time, there is so much negativity that has been brought about by the issues and intentional breakdown of the human soul by this evil power entity.
I want to try to get a point across - an extremely important one. I want everyone to know that they can still live and feel happy in this world of horrors. When things get harsh and toxic, people shut down, they build a shield to protect their hearts, they become cold, they get cynical. People also learn from an early age to obey and they become followers to power. They end up losing their own personal power. There are so many people in this world who lost their self-worth, their self-esteem, their hearts are so broken they are numb. They will ridicule and throw punches - whether literal or an attack of words - even if it must be behind one's back.
Selfishness is running rampant and is out of control. Ignorance is overflowing everywhere like a cancer. Everything is funny until it happens to you. Everything is ok to turn a blind eye to until it reaches your own sight.
The human heart is fragile and can be hurt with a simple word, a touch, a mere facial expression. The world of human hearts seems to be a closed gateway and getting worse by the day. A true heart cannot be broken. The heart has its own personality, its own identity and its own strength. Your heart - your true feelings are what make you strong. It takes more strength to live from the heart the to hide your heart and purposely destroy your own love, power, and strength by packing it in cold ice.
Let your heart beat freely! Let is seek out love, light, forgiveness, amazement, mystery, magic - let it show you what you have blinded yourself to. Let it awaken in all its glory to guide you as it was meant to be. Your heart will never be broken because it is your power - the power of the entire multiverse lies within your heart. The answers to all your questions are available when you let your love flow.
Give to others and be generous. You don't have to have money to give. You have a smile to give, you have a mouth to compliment, you have a sense of humor to make someone laugh. Reach out and lend a helping hand. Melt the negative energy in your life with the burning power of your loving heart.
Stop simply existing! Stop saying you can't find time to do anything but work and take the kids around. If you are overworking or overbooking your schedule, then you are not honoring yourself. There is a way to rearrange or cut down on things that consume and swallow your life.
I literally could write about so many things and reasons why people are not happy but the purpose of this post is to get you to see that if you don't do something to love today - you will never find love tomorrow and this leads to creating miracles and happiness in your life. Everyday, there is a tomorrow that everyone thinks will bring their goals and dreams into being and this is wonderful but things manifest in the lives of those that bring happiness to their life, not stress, not feeling worn out or depressed, not being cold-hearted, and certainly not being so miserable today that you couldn't make time to enjoy your life right now. If you want money, success, love, peace, contentment - then you need to find time to feel these things everyday. Someday usually doesn't come and make someday today!
Be the love, the inspiration, and the motivation. Be the one who shows your loved ones that today can be a good day. Look at the ones you love and enjoy them - spend time with them doing fun things. Fun things do not have to cost money. They do not have to take up your entire day. Just keep in mind that time with them is limited so spend it now. Appreciate what you have and help others that don't have. Life isn't about material things. It isn't about attachments to objects. It isn't about competition. It is a very simple concept. It is about love. It is about sharing and caring. It is about sending your love to all that need it. It is about reaching out to make this world a better place.
Does it hurt you when someone hurts someone you love? Does it make you angry? Do you feel awful when someone says something awful about you or puts you down? Keep this in mind because every single person that walks this earth had this happen to them. Instead of making fun, or laughing at someone - think about their hearts; think about their feelings. How would you feel? Why would you even want to make someone feel bad?
Perhaps someone wronged you - and you feel revengeful. Hurting them back makes you just as bad as they are. It hurts you as well because you are going against the loving heart you have, decreasing your power, and your soul's deep divine love. Maybe something as simple as your smile will save someone's life that may be contemplating suicide. Maybe your hurtful words will be that one thing that will drive that same person to take their own life.
Your words are like a weapon. Your facial expressions are also weapons. These things carry energy and energy can attack another's personal energy to the point where there is so much negativity, it has a horrifying effect on that person's life. I've seen this firsthand and I speak to you from a lot of experience.
Also keep in mind that what you put out into the universe you will get back one way or another. It may not be in the way you may think but in the end, you will get what you have coming to you. The universe provides justice to keep balance.
Every person on Earth has the power to create miracles. When you reach out and show kindness, gratitude, and love - and when you do what you can to help another - you create miracles. When you stop being selfish and start showing the Universe that you care about more than just yourself, when you become selfless - not meaning that you don't care about yourself, but that you care from your heart about others and what you can do for others - you start to see miracles happen all around you. You will receive your own miracles in return. You will be happy and when you are happy, it makes those around you happy. It is a precious gift you give to the people you love because when they see you happy, it makes them feel better. When they see you happy, that strong emotion that is so packed with positive energy will move into their lives as well. It is a win-win for all.
Today - ask yourself, what can I do to help someone? Send everyone a smile. Let people know they are appreciated. Give a little of your time freely. Volunteer where help is needed. If you have money or even if you don't - leave a dollar bill on the shelf in a store. Lend an ear to someone who needs to be heard. Wrap up a necklace you don't use and give it to a stranger. Bring a case of pet food to a shelter. Take your leftover dinner to the homeless. Leave a bowl of food and water for stray animals. Strive to be a better person yourself. Find your heart and open it wide. If it gets a scrape, it will heal. If it gets trampled on, you will find a miracle to heal it.
Tomorrow - do the same. It becomes addictive to help others. It is the greatest and most wonderful feeling ever. No one should be cast aside, no one should be segregated. We are one race - the human race living on one world - our home Earth. Find your love for a way you can contribute to help people find their own hearts. Show them the way to get along and stop hating, stop fighting and to find peace.
Haven't we all been through enough? Isn't it time to just breathe and feel the true miracle of peace and contentment. It is here for all of us if we can just open our hearts. No one is born hating, judging, ridiculing, neglecting, hurting - we learn this. It can be cured and it can be replace. It is truly just a simple decision on your part. Who is in control of you? I hope your answer is yourself. If that is the case, then you have the power to make any decision you want. There is no excuse. If you have been hurt then more than anyone you know why you should not be the one that causes pain. The evil world power entity that is causing our misery will continue to fight us but when enough of us take back our love and power, light will overcome dark and balance between the two will be restored. Evil will never go away in this realm of existence but it doesn't have to be the leading power. Let's make it so.
Be the person you want to be - not the one others want you to be. Ask your heart what it wants - don't shut it off and cage your power. Take back your love, your power, your life! Start living life and stop being a slave to the evil entity of this world. Free yourself and this world. Let's do it together!
For those of you who are reading this post - please read the one before because this is a continuation of the last post - 'Not All Ghosts Are Out to Get You.'
So was it Phillip that was standing at my bedroom door watching us sleep - you bet it was! I could see a hazy outline of a figure standing there - almost like the heat haze you see in the searing hot summer heat. I couldn't tell if it was a man, woman, boy, or girl... or if it may have been a different kind of entity, however, after being called mom several times and hearing his voice - I knew it was a boy.
As the days passed by, Phillip became more and more active as well as interactive. 'Normal' ghost haunting activities would commence such as lights blinking and turning on or off by themselves, footsteps, cold air spots, strong feelings of being watched - especially very late at night when I was always up till insane hours of the morning by myself. The kids became aware of Phillip pretty fast - it couldn't be helped with his activity.
One morning after feeding my son who was about 8 months old - I was rocking him to sleep in my bedroom on my bed when I felt a dip in the bed right next to me. I could feel coldness next to me and I could even see a depression in the mattress. It was creepy but to make it even creepier - my son started waving his hand and google talking to whatever it was that was next to us. He was smiling and being really cute with whomever was there. If we had to have a ghost - I'm happy that he liked children. This occurrence become a part of this routine.
Speaking of liking children - our ghost became very protective of my daughter as time went on. He seemed to like to take part in time spent with her and her friends. While they were hanging out in her bedroom, her friends - 1 or more of them, would feel a tap on their shoulder, a cold rush of wind go by them, witness her lights blink or go off and other small things that they would try to brush off - for the most part. My daughter would laugh at them and just say - don't worry, it's just our ghost. Some would laugh and others would get freaked out.
I really love music and when I clean the house or just want to have some fun - my go to is music. I love to turn it up and jam while cleaning or doing mostly anything! Apparently Phillip loved music too. It started with my daily housework. I had my favorite CD of music playing and it was something I listened to often. My stereo started to pick and choose songs on its own. I would hear a break in the music - a longer pause then usual before the next song would play, only it wasn't the next song - it was 3 songs down the line or maybe even the first one on the CD. Sometimes the same song would play over again or in the middle of a song - the music would stop and I'd hear the changer pick a new CD and then it would play. None of this was due to settings on the stereo system, and there was nothing wrong with my system. It got to the point where I would have to 'share' the music we listened to so he would stop changing music on me.
One night while we were all sleeping - we were abruptly woken up by the sound of blasting music coming from my stereo. That was a very bad way to get woken up from a sound sleep. I had to lay down a few firm house rules for our ghost guest. I am grateful that he was easy to get along with but he did prove to have a fun sense of humor - maybe not in the middle of the night though.
Moving forward a little - Phillip made his presence known to us every single day but not always in big ways - most of the time. We started to become used to him and realized that he was not a harmful entity at all. He just wanted to belong - he wanted a family of his own and we were it. My husband at the time was still pretty oblivious to Phillip and when things happened that were obvious - he was in total denial.
I had another baby - a sweet little girl and with her - our family was complete. Phillip also liked to hang out with her and try to comfort her when needed. When she would cry - you could always feel very cold spots and then you could see one of her baby toys moving or the mobile over her crib would start playing. She would laugh and smile at our invisible family member.
One evening after dinner, I was cleaning up the kitchen, standing at the sink and my oldest daughter and my son were rolling a ball around just laughing and having fun. I had some music on but not too loud. Everything was perfectly fine and then I heard both of my kids yelling to me from the hallway which was right off the kitchen. They were yelling, "Mommy, hurry - come quick - OMG hurry!!" Well I dropped everything I was doing and ran into the hallway when I just stopped in my tracks and stared...
To be continued...
I'm Cher, a psychic medium, paranormal investigator, extensive paranormal researcher, spiritual teacher, intuitive counselor, hypnotist of past life regression,writer, exorcist in training and founder of PsychicMyst Paranormal Network. I have over 37 years of total professional experience.