Have you lived before? Were you another person living a completely different life than the one you are living now? How many times have you reincarnated? Were you a woman, a man or something else? Did you live on Earth or a place so far away, we cannot even begin to fathom it?
Past lives is a very intriguing subject for anyone who is curious to know who they might have been before, but it is so much more than that. All those lives are lived by your own soul pieces and there is actually a reason as to why you are all of those lives that you lived. Can you imagine how ancient and knowledgeable you really are? If you could only tap into that – ah, but you can! The hardest part is to explore deep enough that you can piece everything together, which is a journey unto itself. Every life you live is still a part of who you are – even if the soul piece that lived it, never connected with the soul piece you are now – but it will eventually. Each life holds many lessons and much knowledge. Each life advances your spirit and increases your power.
I have had many experiences with past lives as I know many of my own. Discovering the ‘you’ that lived these lives are amazing. Looking totally opposite that you do now, acting in ways you never thought you were capable of, living as beings you never even thought existed – it is all very mystifying.
My youngest daughter showed signs of being in touch with her last life as a baby; however, I didn’t realize it until she was a little older and she could communicate it. It seemed like she was having horrible nightmares when she was just a baby. She would be very restless and whimper in her sleep. She would wake up crying terribly and it would be hard to calm her down. As she started to communicate, she showed fear of intruders and fear that the stove burners were not turned off. I would have to bring her around the house showing her that the house was all locked up and secure. I also had to take her over to the stove and show her that it was all fine. She always expressed a love for horses and wanted to be around them. Not long after that, she started talking about her grandmother and how much fun she always had with her. She was extremely fond of this grandmom and loved to share some of her memories with me. These were very vivid memories and you could tell that she loved her grandmom so much. The issue was that she didn’t really know either of her grandmothers. My mom died when my daughter wasn’t quite a year old and my ex’s mom lived a few states away so she never really saw her to know her. This was perplexing as this mysterious grandmother sure was an important part of her life. It wasn’t an imaginary friend as everything she did and talked about was a thing of the past – really far, far in the past. One day when I was hanging out with a friend and my oldest daughter, my youngest daughter came to me crying. She couldn’t hold it in any longer and told me everything she remembered. She told me about the house her grandmom lived in. It was a large white farmhouse with a lot of ground and there was another house on the property; that is where her own parents used to live. There was a stable with many horses that she loved so much. She had a brother that was younger than her. She said one night a bad person set the grounds and the houses on fire. Her grandpop tried to save them. He saved her but couldn’t get her grandmom out in time and she died. When my daughter told me this part – she was crying so hard she could barely talk. Apparently most of the horses died too. After she calmed down a bit, she went on to say that she was a teacher and that she grew up and had two kids. Her brother was killed in a sword fight and she lived to be pretty old before she got sick and died. She then said, “then the next thing I knew was I was here with you – my new mommy.” It was quite an emotional experience and you could clearly see that she felt these emotions and feelings intensely. I did ask her a few things about it in hopes to learn more, but it would really upset her so I left it alone. As she grew older, the memories faded.
Past lives are indeed fascinating and you can discover one or many of yours with the help of past life regression. Past life regression is an effective and safe hypnosis technique that can take you to your past life where you can experience a little or a big part of it - or if you prefer, you can view it as an outsider looking in so that you feel no emotions towards it. There are benefits to experiencing past lives such as discovering why you may have a fear of something in this life or why you have issues that you cannot figure out how they came about. You can then determine the lesson or lessons that you were meant to experience and learn from in that life. You can also heal from any trauma or pain from that life that may be causing you issues in your present life.
A past life is not the same as a parallel life where one of your soul pieces are alive in another realm somewhere in this multi-verse living simultaneously with you now. There are methods to discovering your parallel lives as well but that is for another post. You can have an indefinite number of parallel lives and there is the possibility that your past lives and parallel lives can find their way intertwining into your 'now' life. If that happens, it usually tends to occur in dream states; however, it can slip through the cracks and show up in glimpses and glitches into your life as you are aware of it now.
As a past life regression hypnotist, I have done a lot of regressions and have found very amazing life stories as well as learned a lot about other origins and types of beings to say the least. As a psychic, this type of regression validates my psychic findings as well. I can bring people to various lifetimes in one session or if there is something particular they want to explore, I can help them to do that as well. Each life explored holds meaning and after the exploration, I always try to help my client understand the lessons that were learned from that life and then heal what needs to be healed. Not only do I take my clients to visit their past lives, but I take them to the places we go in between lives to find out more about that as well. Many times, they meet their own spirit guide too.
One client was shocked to discover that they were on fire in the life they were exploring. The fire wasn’t hurting them though. Their body was made of a biological-flame and continuously burned on a planet that was also aflame. Nothing about the planet this life took place on was anything remotely like it is here. Many years later, I had another client that spoke of such a life – they were also a flame being. This person spoke about how the beings also had different color flames according to a hierarchy. This is just a quick example of how you can discover something completely unexpected or even something you would never even consider.
Most of my clients explored lives where they were other human people – the majority of those lives were lived here on Earth. Usually very spiritually advanced people will go on to discover more unconventional lives such as the fire beings because they have advanced their acceptance of what exists and its possibilities, but you do not need to be a spiritual guru to find amazing lifetimes.
Many people have discovered lives where they were not humanoid life forms at all. Some were animals and other forms that were very difficult for them to try to explain.
If you can’t get to a past life regression hypnotist, there is something you can try on your own to make some progress towards discovering your past lives. There are meditations on YouTube and other people on the net have some you can try. This could work but the hard thing about it is that each person is a unique individual and that journey needs to be individually guided. The meditations are for the general public to use so what might work on one, may not work on another. You can play around with them to see how it helps. This also can be more effective if you are a person who is experienced in meditation.
You need to be in a relaxed state and in a place where you can be undisturbed. This is a must for past life regression. You must also be able to be aware enough to guide your own thoughts. Have an idea of what it is you would like to explore. Is there something in your life that you just can’t explain? Maybe this is something you would like to check out. If not, and you just want to know who you were one time in the past, then pick a time where you lived a happy life or a successful life. Set that as your intention.
Try this method of PLR (Past Life Regression) - Put on some relaxing meditation music or whatever you can slow down and relax to. If you are an empath, use music that will take your senses to the level where you feel that music deeply. After you are relaxed quite a bit, surround yourself with a bubble of protection light from the universe and then feel a swirling wind come and lift that bubble up with you inside it. Ask the guiding light to move and carry you up and away to a life where you lived a happy one – or whatever you set your intention to. The swirling wind will carry you where the light guides it to. The light will be your intention and the wind is your time machine. As you begin to travel way up, the bubble is filled with such bright white light, you can no longer see anything but that light. You are perfectly safe. When you feel the bubble land, the light will slowly dissipate and you will be able to see all around you. Step out of the bubble and realize that this is the happy life that you once lived. You are now able to walk all around and discover this world that you lived in. Step out of the bubble as the person you were in that life. Look down at your feet – what kind of shoes are on your feet or do you even have shoes? Walk around and observe the people. What period clothing are they wearing. What do they look like? You can talk to people and see who knows you. You can walk into a house that was once yours and go to the table where there is an envelope with your name on it. You can literally make anything happen.
This is how your subconscious mind extracts information from your archived memory and from your soul. The more you use this method, the stronger your connection with the higher realms and your soul will be. The sky is the limit – or actually – nothing is the limit except what you refuse to believe in. Trust your first impressions and ask questions of yourself in this world such as, “What did I learn from this life?” Ask to be brought to places you want to see – like what made this such a happy life. You can observe anything at all! There is nothing to stop you except yourself.
When you are done exploring, simply step back into your bubble and come back the same way you got there – or if you want, go explore another life. Be sure to write down everything you felt, saw, heard, experienced and everyone you met. This will help you to unlock more next time.
It is true that having a PLR professional can make a difference, but this is a good place to start. Past life regressions take about an hour and a half to really get somewhere in making discoveries so take your time and don't give up only after one or two tries. You need to trust your intuition and follow that but if you can get to a PLR hypnotist - it is a fantastic way to open up a new path in your life.
This is a very sensitive and delicate subject so it is with great respect for those who have passed on that I write this, as well as for those that are left behind that are trying to cope with this type of death. I deal with the paranormal on a daily basis so I have spent decades working with others on both sides of the spectrum – the living and the deceased. I see how a dark death affects all involved and the many issues that both the living and the deceased are trying to work through and get past in order to move on with their lives. It is very sad and tragic indeed as some spend the rest of their living lives trying to get out of the despair and the deceased can very well spend decades or centuries doing the same.
A dark death is when a person dies by tragic means such as a suicide or murder. Accidents are also tragic and can fall into this category as well. Even though death by illness is also very tragic, it is not usually considered a dark death but it could turn into one if certain factors are present.
A suicide is one of the most difficult deaths to deal with. It is certainly more than a tragedy as this person was consumed in the darkness so much that the only way they could imagine peace was to take their own life. The person could appear to be fine on the outside, but inside there is great turmoil and their rational thinking where their life is concerned, is quite clouded. There are so many different scenarios when it comes to the disposition and circumstances of the suicide victim. Also, how they handle situations and see outside conditions plays a big part. Their influences, past and present, are part of it as well. When it comes down to it, no one is actually responsible for another person taking their own life except the person who takes their own life. To a person who is in that state of mind, anything at all could be that one last straw that pushes them over to the other side. If that person was serious about suicide and is left untreated, it will eventually happen. Nothing else but powerful intervention will take away that feeling they have. Many times, intervention does not help either. It needs to be both a counseling and spiritual intervention; however, many times the person contemplating suicide can hide what they are truly feeling to keep others from becoming suspicious.
There is a lot of blame that goes on with suicide deaths on both sides. The suicide victim could place the blame on a bad upbringing, their spouse, money, the way they look, their bad luck, their life in general and a slew of other reasons. It is usually a combination of issues – long-term issues that they never learned to process or handle. They are not thinking the way someone else, who would not attempt suicide does. They are plagued with severe depression or a similar concern. A person who suffers from long-term negative emotional states draws to them negative energy. This negative energy will continuously gain strength and take a hold on the person suffering. If this is left untreated, the energy will attach itself to the host as it will feed off this host and become even stronger. Once it reaches a certain point, the negative energy becomes a mass, and a thought-form of the depressed energy will be born - an energetic ethereal entity that will feed off fear, anguish and depression to its already stricken host. If it is left to continue on, other malevolent energies will become very attracted to this host. They will assist on feeding the host negative things in order for them to feed off the reaction this fear and negative emotions will cause. It becomes a never-ending vicious time-bomb cycle. Some fend it off for a lifetime of complete misery and suicidal thoughts and maybe even attempts, but some just cannot endure and end it. There is always a huge negative mass around suicide victims.
Unfortunately when a person steps in to break the universal law of physical life, they do not move on to the usual afterlife until they have found their way out of the darkness. Life in itself can be very harsh but we do our best to not lose our minds and carry on every day to do the best we can do and find the little things that we enjoy to keep ourselves sane. For those who could not manage to do this while they were alive, they need to still complete this task before they are truly released to the peace they were so desperately searching for to begin with. The problem is compounded though because now in their deceased form, the task is more difficult to accomplish and their emotional state will now be even more overcome with despair. I’m sorry if that sounds very harsh but it is truth as well as the fact that I am hoping that others will see that they need to handle their issues while they are alive and that what they feel is taking the easy way out or relieving their suffering, is really just signing up for something much worse before it gets better. It is better to be brave and face life in order to move on to peace when your natural time has come to move on. The suicide victim witnesses the pain and suffering of the loved ones that are grieving for them. They see, feel and hear their suffering. This is part of their lesson for breaking this contract or law of the universal life system.
For those who chose suicide but suffered a mental illness that impaired their behavior – depending on the type of mental illness, these victims usually move on to their afterlife destination instead of moving into the realm where they stay until they work through the issues they had in order to move on.
For the loved ones of a suicide that are left behind, they suffer so much. It is usually quite a shock that their loved one was just here and left so quickly, and in such a horrific way. There is a lot of guilt and blame that starts happening – even anger and many other mixed emotions that will surface. Even though this will not help the situation and only make it worse for the person grieving, they still beat themselves up trying to wonder what they could have or should have done. The person grieving can still do something very important to help the suicide victim. While they may not be alive in the sense that they are physical, they still need as much help as they can get in order to get them out of the realm of what some refer to as purgatory but is really like a holding realm. They are still in their mindset from the life they just lived and there is a lot more pain and confusion. If they don’t block out their senses with their own grief, they will hear you and see you. It is so important that their loved ones speak to them and guide them so that they can leave and move forward into peace but it is a healing process. It could really help to get a caring psychic to assist – one that is familiar with this process. This process can take a very long time.
Another dark death is due to murder. A murder victim never wanted to die in the first place and they are taken from their life so suddenly. For this reason, many murder victims do not even realize that they are now deceased. They can go on for quite some time in this ‘dream state’ of sorts feeling like they are still alive living their life – even though it would seem to us that it would be impossible not to know that something is extremely wrong. It is just as if they are living in a dream where things seem to make sense in that dream, but it is only after you wake up you realize how things were really weird. They could even view you as a ghost. A murder victim that does not understand that they left their physical life will stay on the Earthly realm and not move forward until they ‘wake’ up. This could happen in time but that could literally take hundreds of years. It is best if they get assistance as quickly as possible after their death if you suspect they did not move on.
For those murder victims that do realize they have been taken away from their life too soon – many of them are angry or feel just as their loved ones do – that they didn’t say goodbye, that they had more to do, that they don’t want to leave. It is very tragic and sad for both the living and deceased but once again, grief counseling for both the living and the dead can be of tremendous help. Can you indeed counsel the deceased – the answer is yes. It may not be like it will for a living person and it is much more difficult to try to communicate, and then in such a way that will be effective, but it can be done. I have sent many deceased people back home to their proper afterlife. This however, can also be a timely process.
For the living person that is left behind, it can seem impossible to move forward because it is hard to get out of the darkness of negative emotions that are so strong - such as extreme anger, severe depression and anxiety as well as feelings of justice and revenge. This is all normal but it needs to be healed. Sure it takes quite some time, but to hold on to these feelings will not only continue to interrupt their life, but will surely affect the loved ones that are around them. They also have to be careful that these strong negative feelings do not attract negative energy that will form into an intelligence or thought-form. They can also actually bind their deceased loved one to the Earth plane as well – not allowing them to move forward to their heavenly place. A person wouldn’t want to hold their loved one back from moving forward, and it truly hurts them to see their living loved ones in a state where they hold on to anger and vengeful thoughts. It is understandable, but healing is of the utmost importance for the living and deceased.
Even when a loved one moves on to where they are supposed to be – they do not harbor any ill feelings towards the person who took them from their life. It is a tremendously difficult mindset to fathom as a physical being in this life, but when a person passes on and become just their soul energy once again, they see the life path and lessons set forth for everyone. There was a reason this interaction occurred even though it is impossible to wrap the mind around that. Negative emotions are viewed as a human trait but have no purpose in a non-tainted soul’s intellect. Learn to live and love your life! Let the people who love you and are still in your life see you happy – don’t make them worry about you; don’t radiate that negative energy towards them. Also, let your loved one who is no longer with you be happy - as your happiness is their happiness and your sadness hurts them.
Accident victims are also a very tragic death, but there is a borderline there in what deems them dark or not. A car accident is not considered a dark death unless the victim planned a suicide that way or they were under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Accidents such as an overdose of drugs, is also considered a dark death.
If a person causes an accident because they were under the influence of drugs or alcohol and they die, they are subject to the same penalty as a suicide. If they happen to kill other innocent people, they will not only have to deal with and heal from their own issues that caused it in the first place and the grief of their loved ones, but they will also have to deal with the grief of the people they killed and their families as well. Incidentally, a person who commits premeditated murder also receives a similar holding place where they will experience the pain and suffering of their victim as well as all of the people that loved the victim - not to mention their own family.
If a person dies of an unintentional drug overdose, it is also treated as a suicide. It may not be as harsh, as the person did not intend on taking their own life - but the darkness that is with them in the first place will still stay with them in death until they can displace it. They still must witness the pain and suffering of those that loved them and then heal from it before they can move forward. This also could take many decades or more if healing intervention does not occur.
Death is a hard enough subject in itself but a dark death is the hardest to handle. Dark death isn’t labeled that way just because of the awful circumstances that caused it, but also because there is a lot of dark energy present just waiting to be fed from the deceased and from the living. It wants to cause more darkness. Death is the paranormal and in the world of the paranormal, there is still light and dark. Neither light nor dark death doesn’t always guarantee a cleansing of negative energy. I wanted to bring awareness so that people can free themselves of the darkness. Always keep in mind that knowledge is power and gives you the ability to take control of your own life. The deceased can hear what you tell them, they can see you and they can be influenced by you. Show them your love and don’t keep yourself or your loved ones bound to darkness. Work on keeping darkness out of your life now so that your afterlife will be an easy transition.
Keep in mind that there are no set rules and regulations that govern the ways people pass on. Each and every soul is handled in regard to their circumstances. How they lived their life, how they were towards others, their mindset, what types of energies they attracted into their life, their heart, their spiritual experience – and a lot of other variables go into each single case of how the deceased will experience their afterlife and beyond. Even the experiences of previous lives will play a big part of this. There are things you can do in this lifetime to be sure your afterlife transition is the easiest. How do you know what to do? Meditate and look in your heart. All of the answers are there!
I send love, light, healing angels and blessings to all the living that lost their loved ones and to the deceased who are working to find their way.
Grieving is the hardest thing you will ever have to live through. Everyone grieves differently and for different lengths of time. It is all a very personalized experience. There is no right or wrong way to grieve but the one thing it certainly is, is excruciatingly painful. I know from my own personal experiences having lost my father, mother, two sisters and a husband. It pains me as a caring person and as a psychic/medium/empath, when I see others grieving. I just want to reach out and do something to ease their pain. I suppose that is why I decided to do this post on grieving and the loss of a beloved one. Mother’s Day has just recently passed and I was reading through my social media accounts seeing so many people missing their moms – as am I.
When a person dies, the ones they leave behind go through a lot of pain trying to cope with the loss and huge change it makes in their lives. It is hard to come to terms knowing you will no longer be able to see that person again. Yes, they live on in your memories and in your heart but they are no longer tangible to hug, kiss and hold. It may not be the same, but that person that is no longer with us just made a transformation from one type of reality into another one. Depending on what type of human they were in this reality and their circumstances when they passed on, will determine their immediate afterlife experience. They need to adjust to their transition just as you do. In any case, they are closer than you may think.
So many people tend to blame themselves for things they did or didn’t do when the person they loved passed away. They start with the ‘what ifs’ and ‘I wish I would/wouldn’t have’ or ‘I never go to tell them’ kind of thing. It is really natural to do that. People will literally punish themselves over everything they can possibly think of that they feel bad about. No one is perfect and in all honesty, you shouldn’t beat yourself up about it. When a person passes on, most are greeted by loved ones who have previously passed. Some are greeted by angels or appropriate entities to guide them and help them to make their transition.
One thing that I have always found to happen is that the loved one who passed will attend their own funeral. They will stick around the same day or next day to try to comfort you. If no service is held, they will come back for a very brief time to say goodbye, but please keep in mind that this is not a final goodbye – it never is. They will and do come back again to keep an eye on you and visit.
After the funeral is complete, the deceased makes their way to their new destination and has a reunion with those who they have waited a long time to see. Even if one of their loved ones has passed a very long time ago and is now in another life, they still visit with them because we all have the capability to be out of our body. The soul will leave the body during sleep to join this joyous reunion. The judgment that we hear about is really our own judgment that we perform upon reviewing the life we just lived to see if we met our goals and life lessons. Some spirits go through a stage where they need to recuperate from their last life a little longer than others may have to.
When a person dies and moves on to their new destination – or goes home or heaven if that is what you refer to it as, that spirit not only retains all of the memories of the life they just lived, but they also regain all of the memories from any other life no matter where it was or how long ago it was. They retain memories of everything that happens between lives as well. They have the ability to come back to visit you or anyone else they choose to, even if that person or being is not of this world or dimension – or even universe. Time is something that doesn’t apply to them as well but in order for us to understand better, time moves faster there than it does here. To them, you will be back with them in no time. It is like you took a few months vacation but will be back soon. To us – decades go by and it feels like a very long time.
Your deceased loved one has other abilities once they pass on as well. They understand your life path – probably better than you do. They can read your spiritual beacon – as well as other entities – and know what life lessons you are going through. They have a deep understanding of why you did what you did or didn’t do what you didn’t do. They are free from the burden of guilt, hate, jealousy – they are not seeing something you may have done as mean or however you feel they may have felt about it. They just understand the human condition but they can see into your heart so if you love them, they will know it and feel it. Something else they can do is hear you – and see you. You can and should talk to them. If you are feeling bad about something – go ahead and talk to them about it. If you are upset because you didn’t say goodbye, them tell them how you feel. Maybe you won’t hear their response; maybe you won’t see their face or feel that hug but they are there. Maybe you will hear/see/feel or sense something. Either way, they are really there and they can really understand what you are saying and feeling. I have had EVP after EVP of spirits telling me they can hear and see their loved ones all the time. There is no reason to feel guilty or bad. Also, it is never too late to ‘make up’ with someone or express your feelings. They totally get it – even more than you may understand this to be because they now are a totally spiritual being capable of supernatural thoughts and perception.
If a person dies but does not realize they are deceased, they will retain the focus of the life they were just living. This means that they feel they are still alive and they do not have any memories of any of their past lives or what happens in between those lives. They are more than likely a little confused because they will usually notice something just isn’t quite right; however, time still is not ticking away like it does here so they may feel the way we do when we are in a dream state. Things make sense in the dream but when you wake up, you are like – ‘what the heck’? They won’t say ‘what the heck’ till they ‘wake up’. If your loved one is constantly around, they may not be aware that they have passed. Of course don’t jump to conclusions because many spirits hang around a lot at first.
Don’t become upset if your loved one doesn’t seem to come around at all. This does not mean they are not there. Many times our grieving can block our senses from tuning into their energies so we may not think they are there but they really are. Also, as time passes – your loved one may not come to visit quite as often as they may have before and there are many reasons for this. As time moves forward, they become more and more involved with their new life. They could take on projects or work as a guide for someone else. They could also reincarnate but it seems there tends to be an average of about 80 years before doing that. There are no set rules though. They could resume things they had interests in from before their carnation. Even if they are busy doing lots of things, they will still come when you call them and they do still come for most special occasions and holidays. They still hear when you speak to them so if they are on your mind, let them know.
Many deceased loved ones appear to you in dreams because it is much easier for them to appear visible and audible in your dream subconscious state than in your waking conscious state. In dreams you can speak with them and hug them. It is also easier for them because they can more easily tune into your subconscious frequency plus while you are asleep, your conscious blocks are not as strongly enforced.
Late at night is a great time to speak with your loved ones but any time is fine really. At night, you might be able to sense a response better than during the day. This is because things quiet down at night. The house is quieter; everyone is slowing down and wrapping up the day. During these more quiet times, you feel more relaxed and therefore are more open and aware of subtle things. Your loved one will usually communicate in very subtle ways. Picture them in your mind or look at a picture of them. Ask them to come to you. Try to imagine that they are right in front of you. You can place a shadow such as a silhouette in front of your mind’s eye or you can just know that they are there. These are some techniques to help you to focus and tune in. Take the time to use your senses to tune into their energy. Do you feel their presence? Do you feel as though someone is watching you? Can you hear anything? Do you smell a certain scent? Keep in mind that what you will more than likely perceive are psychic impressions. These impressions are very subtle and they are not of a physical substance. If you sense them there, it will not be a touch but a gut feeling or your hairs standing on end – maybe you get some goose bumps. If you hear them, it will be more like when you have a conversation between you and another person and then you retrieve that conversation. You can hear that person’s voice in your head but your physical ears do not hear it. Psychic hearing is when the spirit talks directly to your mind – just like the conversation recall in your head. You could even have a special song pop into your mind. You could get little flashes of information in your mind’s eye. You might visualize a color, a symbol or picture something. You could smell perfume, cigarettes or any scent that may be associated with them. Sometimes, what you may get from them may not seem like something they would send you but it may be all that they are capable of. This was the case with my niece. When her father died, he would leave the scent of apples to all that he came to visit but he didn’t seem to be too particularly fond of apples nor did that really hold any meaning to her or anyone in the family. They just came to know that was him and now that he is capable of producing more intricate manifestations, he uses apples because it creates that warm feeling to his family members. I even got an EVP for my niece from a seance session we did where he left the EVP message – apple.
Another important matter to address is a hard one but many people do not realize that an extreme sense of grief could actually prevent your loved one from moving on. Some people actually bind a loved one to the Earth plane, not allowing them to move on to the place of peace where they should be. They don’t usually do this on purpose but they are so desperate to not let them go, their loved one becomes trapped. It is very important to address extreme grieving and denial issues with the death of a loved one for both the mental health of yourself and the future life of your loved one. If they are already deceased, then you would want them to live as happy as possible so you need to let them move on. They also want to see you live as happy as you can. It hurts them to see you so depressed and miserable.
The best way to handle the loss of a loved one is to not blame yourself for anything, talk to your loved one often, know that they are there with you still, know that you will see them again, handle extreme denial and depression and meditate. Spend time with other family members making wonderful memories. Give yourself permission to grieve and forgive yourself or the deceased for things you might be regretting or holding grudges for. Enjoy the memories you have together. It is the end of a cycle and the beginning of a new life for all involved. Take your time and don’t let anyone tell you that you have to get over it or just move on. The loss of a loved one will always be there with you but it is very true that time does make it easier – believe it or not.
I felt so alone, lost and abandoned when my mom passed away 21 years ago. When she was dying, she was in an induced coma so she wouldn't feel pain. When I went to the hospital to say goodbye, she managed to lift an eyelid and give me a subtle smile which should have been impossible for her to do. I told her that I loved her but that it was ok to go home and be happy because I was going to be just fine. I knew I had to make sure she felt ok to leave because she was hanging onto life even though there was nothing else that could have saved her at that point. She passed on shortly after. I felt as though someone had dropped me off in some far away foreign place where I was all alone and totally desolate. It took me almost a year and a half before I could lift my mood almost back to what it was and my ex-husband used to tell me over and over again that I just needed to get over it. Now, when I remember my mom, I smile and remember so many of the wonderful and fantastic times we shared. It doesn’t make me cry; it makes me smile. Sure, after 21 years I may get a tear or two from time to time but she is a wonderful memory and a person that I will always be honored to have had in my life. I still have her in my life as she comes to see me and it is fantastic.
I have received many EVPs from spirits of deceased loved ones for so many of my clients. The spirits leave messages of love and comfort. I have had EVPs saying I love you, don’t worry, they confirm they are happy and well, they say that they watch over their loved ones, they say don’t feel bad, they are near them, they know they miss them, they miss them too, it was their time to go. They confirmed they were present at their loved ones birthday. They confirmed they were at their own funeral. They confirmed information to validate their passing. There are so many EVPs that I have received to back up my own psychic communications with thousands of entities so I can say with confidence that the ones you love and miss with all your heart are still there – in a different form – but there to love and comfort you. They want you to live your life and be happy. Seeing that is what makes them happy so live your life and let them see your smile. Let them live happy too. You will see them again but not until you are meant to.
Did you ever wish that wish granting genies really existed? Me too! While they may not exist in the sense that you ask them what you want and – POOF – done, it materializes instantaneously – there is a wish granting system put in place for us, in a manner of speaking. This genie grants all kinds of wishes and unlike your standard run-of-the-mill genie, it will grant you more than just three wishes. It is capable of granting as many as you can come up with according to its laws and loopholes. I suppose you can call it a manifestation system but all the methods of manifestation are found by most people, to not work for them.
This system is called our universe. The universe is so vast and it is full of wonder, mystery and magick. It is not a person or a particular entity but a mass multitude of intelligence - among other things - with so many possibilities that it is possible to find anything you desire. The most difficult part is to bring those desires into this world and into your life.
There are two types of existences here in our world in which we can communicate our desires to the universe – our genie. There is the physical, which we are all used to – and then there is the spiritual, which most of us live in probably more than the physical without realizing it. You need to utilize both types in order to effectively communicate with the universe genie. Everyone’s level of communication will vary bringing some people easier and better results and some not so much. There are also other factors to consider where results are concerned such as internal and/or external blocks and state of mind, emotion, outside influences – just to name the more major issues.
The physical type of existence is what we perceive our natural state of being to be, and although it is true, that we are having this physical experience, it is also true that this statement is only half true. If we were only a physical existence we would be similar to a cross between a zombie and an advanced AI. Your brain will take care of your instinctual functions and process the data that your external sensory system takes in. You can function just fine but your soul makes the difference in individualization on a high level. Two separate AIs can have the same programs yet still process differently unless they are exact. None of us are exact but your soul is what takes the process and gives it more than biological life – it gives it awareness and abilities that you cannot reach with just a meat suit. Sure there are AIs in the universe that are self-aware but that is for another time.
The spiritual is a place that we access with our subconscious mind. When we dream of the future or daydream, we are placing ourselves in a light state of hypnosis which will gently tap into our subconscious. We dream of traveling or making more money. We worry about money or finding the right relationship for ourselves. Manifestation is something we turn to when we feel desperate to get the things we feel we need into our lives, but authorities on the subject have a bazillion techniques to try, so you find yourself trying this, that and the other thing. The truth is that the genie doesn’t really care about techniques. There is no written handbook on how to access the universe genie because a new authority on it came up with this great method of maybe what worked for her or him. When you daydream or meditate, that will access your spiritual mind and your spiritual mind is what has direct access to the universe. Even still, you cannot forget to include your physical self into the equation or you will not get the answer to the problem. It isn’t a technique you need but the ability to communicate with the universe. Some people already subconsciously have their station tuned to the right frequency, but life can do a lot to throw your natural frequency off so depending on that factor as well, you need to make some adjustments.
The universe genie will ‘hear’ your wishes but as an intelligence that works on laws and loopholes, you must treat the genie as though it were a tape recorder. You must tell the genie – the recorder – exactly what it is you wish. HINT: When making this wish, you need to be sure this is what you want. This is a very big part of wish making and probably one of the biggest reasons your genie ignores you. The universe genie will ‘record’ your wish – word for word so be sure you say it how you mean it because it will be taken very literally. Another thing you may want to seriously consider when wording your wish is adding the statement, ‘with harm to no one’ at the end of that wish. Even though this is jumping forward a little, here is why you should do that. The universe only records what you say. How it is delivered could be one of a plethora of ways but if you don’t specify this little extra phrase – the loophole direct encumbrance could be included in your results path. Now this is not to say that you need to tell your genie how it should do its job – as this will certainly cause more trouble than it is worth. Just a simple wish with a simple phrase tacked on is all that is necessary.
Once you make your wish, the universe usually waits for reinforcement before it starts it work to grant you what you are asking for. Once you stake your claim and the universe knows you are serious, it begins the task of scanning the pathways that are available for the outcome you desire. There is never just one pathway and on top of that, the decisions and actions you take, as well as the words you spew can and will alter and change the pathway to your desired results. Sometimes this could be a plus and other times, a hindrance. This is why you need to consistently monitor your thoughts and take care using words. Your genie will look for the path that will be as quick as possible but most importantly, what is in your own best interest balancing out and taking into account your life lessons and karmic debt. As you can see, there is a lot that goes on behind the scenes that you have no idea about but you need to work with yourself and your genie to push things through.
Usually, the biggest issue for a wish delay or what seems like it will just never come about, is because people tend to rewind their tape recorder too much. In other words, they start to contradict what they asked their genie for. Say you want your own business and you tell your genie that you want this business. Then you start getting cold feet and think that perhaps just finding a better job would be less scary and more stable – after all, you have a family to provide for. This is called rewinding your tape recorder. The universe genie never stops listening. Now the recorder is rewound and your new wish is getting a better job – 'maybe'. Part of your original wish was just erased and part was taped over. What does the universe genie do with your wish now? Now you have a wish that sounds like garble. The genie doesn’t understand garble and cannot grant this wish. Whatever progress was made could maybe start to show itself, but then things could go south because now it is not clear at all. Once you make that wish – stick like super gorilla glue! If you bounce back and forth between what you want, you confuse the genie and it stops working on your wish. Now you need a brand new recording.
If you truly do not get what you are asking for, it is because you rewound your tape recorder too much or you didn’t take care of blockages, avoided lessons or you have not yet paid off your karma. You could have incurred new karma or other issues along the way.
Don’t let this discourage you – most of the time, you won’t have all of these obstacles in your path. If you have a delay, you need to work on self-improvement to clear it up. The universe genie will never give up on you. Keep in mind though that although the universe can and does produce miracles, it cannot do your part of the work that you need in order to grant your wish for you. The universe will send you signs and you need to be aware of them. You need to follow those signs and work with your genie by taking action, working on your mindset, keeping your energy high so as not to allow any negative interrupters and if you know you are going through lessons, you need to work through them – not run from them.
A good example of this would be people who are looking for a love relationship. Perhaps they always ran into the same types of women/men and just can’t seem to break that cycle of ‘fixing them’ or whatever else the case may be. There is a reason you get repeat lessons and that is because you are not learning that lesson. To learn a life lesson, it isn’t going to be simple – you need to take a leap of faith and boldly walk into the crowded streets wearing nothing but your birthday suit! Ok, maybe not quite that bold, but you need to jump right out of that comfort zone and make the changes that you already know in your heart what they are – that you have been pretending to not realize they are there – because they scare you – because they lead to the unknown or to what ifs. You will never get past it if you stay in that cage so break out! Only you can do that for yourself – NO ONE ELSE CAN HELP YOU – not even your genie! Just do it! It leads to a lot of great things – just don’t allow yourself to lapse back out of fear. You are born with a lot of power so utilize that power - you have everything within yourself to succeed!
I know all this sounds a bit complex and it really is but on your part – you need to keep yourself in tune to the universe. We are all completely in tune when we are born and then we get all kinds of mixed signals and waves that through us off course. Spiritual growth and progression get you back on track and knowing what you want and sticking to it get your goals accomplished! Just make improvements in yourself and be true to your heart. That is the best place to start.
Your genie is out there waiting for your wish, and remember – you get more than three but it is probably better if you work on one at a time. You don’t want all of your wishes getting jumbled up on the same recorder. Everyone is on their own life path. Everyone has a different vibration rate and everyone’s spiritual evolution is at a different level. Have patience and never stop. Your genie will notice your sincerest wishes and grant them when the time is right.
Being human is certainly challenging. Our awareness is focused on a 24 hour, 365 day cycle and with that cycle, we live on repeat with several variations and certain periodic fluctuations. This is what we call life and it keeps us pretty busy doing a whole lot of things that we would rather not be doing. Time clicks on and on - it waits for no one and it isn't our friend. Some humans are perfectly fine living within these 'laws' or confines that are set in place for us and that is exactly how it was 'meant to be.' There are some, however, that can't shake that feeling that something just isn't quite right. They can feel that there just has to be more to it than what our human senses can perceive and what we are purposely being shown and led to believe.
Even though there are different types of humans, the ones who choose to explore their hunches, their intuitive calling, will soon start to experience things that go beyond - and many times, way beyond - what the average everyday human will ever realize. If these inquisitive humans stay with their exploration and subdue their fear of the deeply unknown - they will make many shocking discoveries, uncover many mysteries and bear witness to things that seem to go far beyond the supernatural level of existence, but every 'natural' human is a supernatural being.
If I told you that you could spiritually visit your friend in another country and then tell your friend everything they were doing, would you believe that was possible? How about the possibility of jumping into a shadow to explore another type of realm or even another personality, would you think that possible? Does that all sound too far out? Something that could only happen in a sci-fi? Let's go even further out there shall we? What about office worker during your human day and a cosmic warrior during your supernatural night? Being a 'natural' human means that we are all programmed with certain beliefs and limitations. If we are told that something is an impossibility, then we take that as truth. We are told you can't break the laws of time, yet it has been accomplished. Humans are brainwashed to live within the set laws and regulations of the world in which they dwell.
The human body and mind are not 'supposed to' surpass the human state it was made for; however, humans were brought about by super-humanoid beings - some refer to them as 'gods' made in their image - at least the ones who have invested their own souls into the project. Being a part of these super-humanoid beings, our bodies contain the capability to exceed our beliefs but there are locks - or restraints, that hold us back. We are not just our body and brain however. We are also a soul and our soul far exceeds our human engineers. The issue lies within our souls melding within our bodies - an extremely high energy signature meshing with a very low energy vibration. Our soul has the excruciating task of waking our body and mind so it can 'break out' of its confines - so to speak.
Most people feel that a good development of psychic abilities brings you deeply into the worlds of the supernatural and although it is a great place to start - advanced psychic development is just a beginning. Don't get me wrong - developing your abilities is a wonderful thing and will really open up a lot of opportunities as well as self-discovery, life purpose and prepare you to think bigger than you ever thought possible.
Psychic abilities are more than just predicting future events, hearing and seeing spirit, talking to the deceased and reading energy. If you stay true to yourself and really stick with it faithfully, you will find yourself as the supernatural being that you truly are. Your mind is literally your only limit.
Every soul is at a unique place in their evolution and contains their own set of interests, behaviors, goals and experiences. Some humans contain many soul pieces and others may be quite fragmented. This will have quite an effect on the human views and capabilities but is certainly not the only issue that plays a part in finding and utilizing their supernatural abilities. A human that has trained their minds for a supernatural mindset and can allow their soul to reprogram their human CPU - the brain, are the ones - the small percentage of who becomes the true supernatural being with powers they never thought possible. All is possible within the universe. This planet and the other dimensional realms do not work on the same spiritual levels so if you can escape the human program, you become capable of inhuman ability.
Even people who develop abilities and put themselves in direct supernatural contact still limit themselves to the possibilities because they cannot fathom that the impossible is totally possible. Your beliefs and mindset have a lot to do with what you can pull off. Your human evolution plays a big part too. Your spiritual journey will eventually awaken your super-humanoid body and mind because when you devote time, love and patience to developing yourself spiritually, you are giving your body the elixir it needs to become supernatural - the elixir is the power of your soul.
Your intuition is the very start of your supernatural self. If you find that you have strong intuitive feelings, it is your soul nudging you to take further steps as it wants to overcome the program it is now bound to. Your spiritual path and journey is calling to you at this point. If you have strong intuition than you are ready to develop your psychic powers. Where to begin depends on where your strengths are. It is very true, and yes, quite possible that you can leave your physical body without having to die. This can be accomplished in several ways - not just through OBE (out-of-body) or NDE (near-death-experience).
You can meet and interact with other humans and other types of entities. You can explore other worlds and realms. You can send your mind to far away places to observe what is going on and obtain information. You can send a soul piece to explore the astral and spiritual realms and any dimension you want - even places you never knew existed. You can speed up the healing process of illness and wounds. You can speed up or slow down your perception of time. You can not only hear, see and sense other entities, but you can interact and work with them. You can break the laws of physics. You can go through walls and objects. You can 'see' what is on the other side of a piece of paper or explore the inside of a painting or mirror. Bending spoons and levitation can be accomplished among many other things. This takes great devotion and time - just like any skill, you get out of it what you put into it.
Things that were just 'made up' or 'due to imagination' are something that exists in reality somewhere in the multi-verses. Even information about yourself - 'forbidden information' - your incredible soul and all of its experiences, will be so mind-blowing, you will repeatedly question your own sanity.
This isn't just crap i'm spewing - I have been working as a supernatural being my entire life and I have met and worked with others who travel my path and who have had one or many of these experiences. Creatures and beings exist in so many types, shapes and sizes. Just on this planet alone, there are others that would give you quite a stir. The sheer plethora of things to discover is beyond imagination and the discoveries you can make and live are not even in your vocabulary or awareness.
Bring out the supernatural being that you are! It is a way of life and quite an amazing one! It is a life-long journey and an astonishing quest. It is also something that will require time, persistence, a strong will, emotional balance, an extremely open mind, a strong belief in yourself and the ability to withstand extreme ups and downs as your soul will put you through quite a series of harsh tests. Passing those tests come with a slew of incredible understanding and adventure. It is the craziest roller coaster that you will ever ride but it is literally out of this world and totally worth every second.
As a being with a soul, you have the authority to extract all universal knowledge. You can download your own soul information or your sou codex™. You can even employ weapons and become a spiritual warrior. The sky is the limit as you are a universal entity capable of things that go way beyond the understanding of a human contained in a soul cage. Yes, there are reasons why we choose to do so but since you are here - wouldn't it be great to bring your human awareness to a super-humanoid supernatural level?
Thanks for reading. Blessings to all!
I'm Cher, a psychic medium, paranormal investigator, extensive paranormal researcher, spiritual teacher, intuitive counselor, hypnotist of past life regression,writer, exorcist in training and founder of PsychicMyst Paranormal Network. I have over 37 years of total professional experience.