There are several types of evil hauntings that you may run across especially if you are pursuing the paranormal or if you are involved in any type of spiritual or supernatural endeavor. I have been involved in the world of the paranormal my entire life as my first experiences began before my recollection of the ages that occurrences took place, according to my mother. I do, however, recall one such occurrence at the age of 4 and then many others beginning at 7 years old, and it's been consistent ever since. I have had experiences with the negative side of the paranormal world more times than I can count, but this has helped me gain great knowledge and insight into not just what lurks in the paranormal world, but also how to protect myself and avoid future issues. Of course avoiding these issues is sometimes not that easy to do if you are deeply involved in paranormal activities. I decided to write this blog post in hopes of helping others to protect themselves, and even better, yet totally steer clear from negative energies that could really cause harm to not only themselves, but their family members as well. I have always said that knowledge is power and reading this blog will hopefully empower you to protect yourself against the negative forces of the supernatural worlds by means of further education.
So not everybody is involved in paranormal endeavors - the majority of people are not involved. Usually, for the majority of the population, coming across a haunting is rare. You may move into an apartment or house and find yourself in a situation where a ghost is present, and according to your past experiences with anything of this sort, you may find yourself very frightened or not frightened at all. Of course, a lot of it has to do with what you are being haunted by and how powerful this particular spirit is. There are many factors that go into a haunting so many things need to be taken into consideration. However, a regular haunting will usually not cause too much of a disturbance and many people are capable of learning to live with the ghost peacefully. On very rare occasions a person may find themselves bunking with a spirit that is a little more on the negative side and hard to handle. These could be human spirits that are angry, jealous or show other negative emotions such as feeling that they have been slighted and are looking for some type of acknowledgement, revenge or they may be going for the old misery loves company trick. Other negative entities could include other-worldly entities that have come from different dimensions, worlds, or could be a different type of species all together. You could also be very unlucky and come across a demon or a poltergeist. These things are extremely rare even for people that are quite involved in the paranormal.
If you are involved in the paranormal world because you are a paranormal investigator, researcher or a psychic; perhaps even a spiritual teacher, then the chances of you running across negative energy is a little higher. As I stated before there are many factors that go into play when weighing out the odds of coming across an evil spirit or some negative energy that can really cause you some serious problems. The amount of work that you do in the paranormal field plays a big part. Knowing how to protect yourself in the first place from negative energies and entities plays a huge part. The deeper you delve into the paranormal world, the more and more you place yourself at a much higher risk of coming across all kinds of entities including evil ones. Your location could play a large part in being discovered by an evil entity. Your state of mind can also attract negative entities. What I mean by your state of mind is your emotional state such as depression and anxiety and it could also refer to medications that may alter your emotional and mental state of being. Also a big one is being under the influence of drugs or alcohol as this literally lowers your vibrational rate. Negative energies vibrate at lower rates so you begin to match their vibrational states of being. These lower energy beings find that very attractive and that is what they seek out. They want to find beings that are easy prey and by doing so you become that prey.
So if you are not involved in anything paranormal - you may just run across the occasional haunted house or establishment. With a "normal" haunting, you probably won't have anything to worry about as you and the ghost can more than likely live side by side in peace. After some time, things usually quiet down as many hauntings go dormant.
If you are involved in the paranormal world, then you need to take measures to learn psychic protection and empower yourself with knowledge. There are many methods of psychic protection and you should learn every single one of them. Then after learning them, you should practice them often as the more you practice, the more powerful your protection becomes. Even with the strongest of protection, nasty, malevolent entities can always find loopholes and break through your toughest barriers. Will you be ready for them then? Even working closely with an angel - such as the all mighty Archangel Michael, is not infallible protection against negative attacks. Reading up on the paranormal is a good place to start but even better is learning from a teacher - someone experienced in the darker side of the paranormal, as this person has experience with what could come at you and how to defend yourself.
This post isn't about learning the actual protection methods as this would take quite some time and lots of practice, but more about the types of negative energies and entities that you can come across during your paranormal work and what to look out for. This will help to keep you away from these entities and shed some light on protection methods by empowering your knowledge arsenal. If you do any type of psychic work - protect yourself! Even meditation is something that you need to put protection in place for. Whether or not you are involved with the paranormal - the paranormal is all around you; even if you cannot see it, hear it or sense it.
So when most people think of an evil paranormal entity, the word demon usually comes to mind first. Mostly everyone is aware that a demon is no joke - certainly nothing to mess around with - unless you're absolutely insane and hey - maybe you are. Did you know that demons actually have 'friends'? Since demons usually do not haunt locations, their target is a person. They look for people easy to influence, people that are already negative because that makes their job easier for them. Some demons that are more ambitious or that are higher up on the hierarchy line, set their sights higher and will choose a victim that would be much harder to gain influence over such as a priest or someone who is strong in faith. That is considered a much bigger 'catch' for them and the rewards are also much bigger. If a demon invests their time and effort into haunting someone you can bet they will stay the course and continue to drag their victim down, down, down as far as they can until death do they part - and if they can take that soul with them, then not even in death will they part ways. So if someone interferes with a demon’s hard labor that they take extremely seriously, that demon will not hesitate to make you back off. They will usually not have to put much effort into doing so as they are scarier than hell. (Pardon the pun) Demons can also call in their 'friends' that are looking for a new assignment and now you could possibly be the target of a demonic interest. How tempting of a target are you to a demonic force on both ends of the spectrum?
I have met many people in this field who have said to me that a demon would not frighten them and they would show them who is boss to one extent or another. That is great and all, but first of off, until you have actually had contact with a real demon, you may change your mind about what you said. Secondly, if a demon thinks you may not be so easy to frighten, that will not deter them; rather you may become more appealing to them. They WILL find a way to get to you and break you down. They will go after the people you love the most first if that’s what it takes. Demons don't play nice, fair, or alone as they work in hellish groups. They have a hierarchy and a military system in place. Many demon generals rule over legions of other demons. Do you know how many demons are in just one legion? There are 6,666 demons in one legion and some demon generals or fallen angels control 80 legions, give or take a bunch. There are plenty to go around and many times a possessed person will have 20 demons that are dwelling within. Sounds like a scary sci-fi but it is not. Fallen angels are extremely intelligent and possess powers far greater than a human. They are not someone to try to play around with. Fallen angels control their demons and imps which means they are even stronger and are always out looking for an opportunity. Make sure that you are not their next opportunity.
The best defense against a demon is to stay clear. Don't do anything that may attract this kind of entity to you in the first place. Of course sometimes you don't even have to do anything in order to find yourself in the company of a demon, but that is extremely unlikely. Trying to get rid of a demonic presence once it has decided to enlist you as their pursuit is more than extremely difficult. It's just so hard not to play right along with them and give them what they want. They live for your misery and they know exactly what your fears are. They know where your weaknesses lie. They understand the way you think. They know what holds meaning to you. They also know all of your deepest, darkest secrets and they can and certainly will use every single bit of it again you and in their favor. They are not novices. They are experts at what they do and they have many advantages over you that you probably don't even realize. I just named a few; however, they are located in the spirit worlds so it is easy for them to have a big influence over your subconscious mind and thoughts. If you're fighting a demon, you need to be one very strong-minded and gutsy individual to say the least.
The good news is that as long as you are not completely in a state of manic despair or total mind intoxication, they cannot take over your life just like that. Demons need to abide by universal law so they cannot automatically disarm your free will. Just a note: you open up lots of ambiguity when your mind is under the influence of anything that will alter it. They can however, influence you to give up your free will. By influence, it is more like terrorize you to give it up. They also know the system inside and out so they somehow manage to find loopholes to work through to bypass these laws. This usually results in your indirect invitation to them. So where's this good news? A demon needs to worm their way into your vessel little by little unless you do something really stupid that will totally accelerate their takeover plans. There are stages of possession that they must go through. How long each stage lasts is entirely up to you. A demon will stick with you like glue. Nothing will deter them except your strong will, unless that makes you more of a tempting target - or an exorcism, but even that is not a guarantee.
Do not invite a demon into your life. I know, I can hear you - who would be stupid enough to do that? You'd be surprised. Most invitations are purely by accident or something you would never even consider an invitation. If a demonic presence is scaring the hell into you and your family, say your young children - as a loving, concerned and scared crapless parent, you may tell the entity to scare you instead of your children. That is an instant invitation and consent to posses. People will many times demand an entity to prove they are there. To a demonic entity, that is an invitation. Just being in the wrong place at the wrong time can get you into serious trouble. If you are stone cold drunk or strung out on extracurricular activities and you are in a location where any malevolent entity lurks, you have a good chance of bringing home a new beastly pet, only you'll be the pet with an unfit abusive owner.
Demons are very shifty characters. They can easily hide their presence even from psychics and mediums. They can also masquerade as a loved one. These are stealthy tactics they employ in order to dig their claws into you to gain a solid foothold and you won't even know in most cases. Some demon’s methods are just plain brutal and they will come at you full force right from the start. That method usually goes hand- in-hand with an invitation such as using a ouija board, a pendulum or tarot cards if you do not know how to protect yourself and utilize the assistance of a trusted guide or angel. Of course in the world of spirit versus human interaction, there are no rules so you have to be prepared for anything.
Psychic protection along with a psychic shield can deter a demon; especially if your protection is very strong, as it shows the demon you take your protection seriously, but there are always two sides of the coin. To other demons, that strong protection and life value just make you more of a challenge and prize. The former seems to be the more popular method among demons. Once a demon has tainted you, your protection will be weakened quickly and your energy will be drained a lot faster, so much more effort will be needed. An oppression usually results in your protection being nullified. You should always engage in the protection of Archangel Michael right from the start and make him part of your daily life. So in a nutshell, stay clear from demons right from the start. Keep your psychic protection strong and your mind and will stronger.
Another very malevolent type of entity that you could run across if you dabble further into the world of the paranormal are entities from other dimensions. Some of these entities are worse than demons, but most of them have no interest in possessing you. There are a slew of these entities in many different types and forms. They literally come from all over the place and have a varied range of reasons that they would become aware and interested in you. The good news is that it is more than extremely rare to even come across one of these entities let alone manage to capture their attention. In the majority of these cases you'd have to be directly in their business, which you could be depending on your area of research; or it could be your incarnated status that holds their interest. This doesn't necessarily mean that you need to be a prominent person or hold a seat in power. Regular Joe Schmoe could be on their wanted list and he may never even know why, but there is usually a reason if it is an incarnate instance. Incarnate attachments are usually for life. These beings could also be interested in collecting a karmic debt.
The hardest part about trying to deal with these beings is that they are unaffected by religion, and exorcism is a joke to them. Psychic protection is more effective; however this usually only serves to keep them at bay by masking your spiritual beacon. If you are good at summoning other entities to help you out, this could be quite effective, but you will need to know what you are dealing with in order to summon the correct help. Also' summoning beings could be one of the reasons you could find yourself in this situation to begin with, kind of like a catch 22.
Many times if you find this new type of 'friend', and you've obtained their 'friendship' through your area of spiritual work and you've tried other methods to end that friendship which didn't work, then ceasing your spiritual endeavors in the areas in question could end the relationship. Once again, you need to know what they are interested in but many researchers who get to this point probably have a good idea.
These beings are malevolent but they do not usually behave as savage as a demon would. Yes they certainly can influence your loved ones and have them 'pay' for your doings, but their methods are more subtle and stealthy. I'd say these beings are of a much higher status than demonic beings but both are more than deadly.
Tune in next week for the second half of this post. Find out what other entities could cause you issues in the paranormal world.
Almost everyone loves animals - I know I do! The house just isn't a complete home without a pet or two to snuggle up to. Not only do pets make awesome companions, they are also pretty good ghost detectors. Pets can see and hear on an entirely different level than people can. Not only that, but they are definitely psychically tuned into the spirit world. Many pet owners have been witness to their pets interacting with the spirit world. It is usually a pretty cool thing to witness, but sometimes it can be scary - for both the pet and the owner.
Many years ago, we used to have a hamster and we kept his home on top of my daughter's dresser. Our cat liked the hamster and would sit on top of his little home playing guard cat. One night when my two daughters and I were in the room with the hamster, the cat was just doing her thing on top of the hamster home. We noticed that she was batting her paw at something in the air. She became more and more active, swinging both of her paws and even standing on her hind legs trying to reach an invisible something above the hamster home. The cat's eyes were following something that kept moving around quickly. Then suddenly, she jumped off the hamster home and onto the floor where she kept chasing after something as if someone was moving a string in front of her, but nothing was there - or at least visible. My daughters and I didn't see anything - no insects - nothing. I ran to get my camcorder, which of course has IR (infrared) capabilities, and I started to film. All of us could see a round, white orb flying around my cat but I suppose this ghost was camera shy because we only saw it for about a minute or so before it stopped altogether. So many ghosts stop cooperating once the camera and recorders come out. It certainly was interesting and fun to watch. It also backs up the orb theory that spirits travel as orbs and can be filmed as such; however, any suspicious orb needs much more study to deem it as a DES - or a true orb. You can read my blog post about true DES orbs by clicking this link. Paranormal DES™ - Dense Energy Spheres.
I am pretty sure that the hamster home ghost was one of the younger ghosts we had in that house - which was a very active one. Several of our ghosts would periodically interact with our pets. I was usually the last person to go to bed in our home so right before I would head up to bed, i would bring our dog to my oldest daughter's room because she used to love sleeping in there. As I did every night, I opened her door, the dog ran in and I gave a quick heads up to my daughter so she knew that an eighty pound dog was about to jump on her, and then I closed the door. So nothing out of the usual - until the following day when my daughter told me what happened when I closed her door the night before.
She said that she never felt the dog jump onto her bed so she sat up to look for her and saw the dog sitting on the floor near the end of her bed looking upward. My daughter said that she thought it was unusual that I would go into her room, close the door and stand there petting the dog in the dark, so she reached over to get her glasses and saw that the female petting the dog was not me. She then saw the girl ghost turn her head to look at her. Once the ghost realized that my daughter could see her, a look of total surprise came over her face and it appeared as though she panicked as she also threw up her arms and quickly disappeared down into the floorboards. So the living scared the ghost away.
What really gets my goat about the entire animals being given the ability to see and hear spirit thing, is that they literally do not have to be psychic in order for that to occur; it is a natural born way of life for them. These animals are designed with super senses which is the key to psychic abilities. They can see into other spectrums of light which is what humans need our ghost cams for. Our pets can hear frequencies that we cannot. It is such a flat out kick in the ass that animals have built-in ghost detectors, yet they cannot speak to communicate to us all of the paranormal things that are going on all around us.
People can speak and usually communicate with each other quite well, but we lack the super senses that our pets have. It is like the creators were saying, "Hey, let's play a joke on the humans! All the paranormal will be right in front to their noses but they'll never know cuz Fido and Kitty can't tattle." It makes me suspicious that this was done on purpose. Even people with psychic abilities cannot perceive as much as our dear furry friends as we need to tune into energy and we do not have IR/UV eyes. (Infrared/Ultra Violet) and can hear frequencies that our ears will never have to capabilities to hear.
Of course ghosts and spirits can sure pick and choose who they want to show themselves off to. Five people can be standing in a room and looking at the center of the room where a ghost stands. Two of those people see the ghost and the other three do not - because the ghost chose who will see them, but you can bet good 'ol Fido and Kitty saw them before those two people did. Some people can naturally see ghosts but if that ghost chooses, they can allow you to see or not to see. Say three dogs and two cats were in the same room as those five people - all the dogs sensed the ghost. The two cats would have but they were sleeping - that is until the two people who saw the ghost screamed and the three dogs started barking and then the cats woke up, saw the ghost, ignored it, hissed at the dogs and ran out of the room to find a quiet place to nap.
A while back at my new house, I was working on a experimental EVP session. Only one person was home that night besides me. There was a noise coming from upstairs but no one was up there. I am used to that sort of thing as our resident ghost likes to say hi from time to time. The cats will make noises all the time upstairs but my dog knew it wasn't the cats as she pays no mind to them and their shenanigans. She went over to the steps and started barking. Just as she did that, I got a real-time EVP that said, "What did you hear?" The ghost was letting me know via EVP that my dog sensed their presence. You can listen to that EVP below.
Many years ago on a ghost investigation - we were at a private residence where the owner of the home was having ghost issues and most of the activity would take place in their master bedroom. They had a golden retriever and a grey tabby cat that loved to sleep with her and her husband. The homeowners were only in their new home for about four months when they noticed the activity and it was steadily increasing. It was becoming quite unnerving for them and that is when they called me to check things out. We had positive emf and temperature readings and most of them were in the master bedroom. After a couple of hours, we noticed that the dog was starting to run back and forth barking at something. The room was about eleven degrees cooler than before and then suddenly, the dog ran under the bed and stayed there whimpering. The cat hissed several times and ran out of the room. The homeowners told me that this was becoming normal behavior for their pets and that it concerned them because they were afraid that the ghost was not a very nice one. It turned out that the ghost did indeed begin to do more and more disturbing things and the animals refused to go into the master bedroom altogether. Even the homeowners slept in a different bedroom. It took quiet some time to have the angry ghost finally move on.
At another investigation, a little Shih Tzu followed us all around the house and literally acted as a ghost detector. He was apparently very friendly with this ghost and they played together quite often. It turns out that the ghost was a little girl that died on the grounds where the new house was built about 50 years prior. We paid a lot of attention to the dog as she helped us to get some pretty good evidence that night. The homeowner ended up being perfectly fine sharing the house with the benevolent little girl and their dog had a happy playmate.
A very amazing true story of a pet strongly sensing an invisible entity is a very touching one where my daughter Brielle's guinea pig died unexpectedly after several wonderful years with him. He suddenly started acting strangely. He became very talkative and moved about his cage a lot. He usually wasn't a very vocal little guy but on the last two days, before the actual day that he passed away, he was squeaking up a storm. My daughter, very concerned about him decided to leave a recorder in her room to see if he behaved that way even when she was not in there with him. He was still eating and drinking - just not quite as much, but that is something that he would do from time to time so she didn't suspect anything that serious. He sat comfortably with her most of the time like normal, but acted up when she would put him back in his home so she figured he just wanted more attention - which she gave him a lot of.
After about an hour of recording, she listened to it and then sent me two short clips of what she found on it. You could hear the guinea pig squeaking and the sound of another animal at the end of the clip. There were voices and whispers on the other clip but very hard to make out. I took the time to clean the clip up and discovered three EVPs on it. Mark passed away two days after the recording was made and it surprised all of us as he didn't act sick or even showed signs of being too old even though he six years old. Mark was apparently aware of entities that were around him. I believe his guardian entities took him home and Mark sensed them.
I posted a video that contains the original audio clip containing the EVPs that were captured in my daughter's room with Mark while he was in there alone. I also have the cleaned and enhanced EVPs on that video as well. I did two follow up EVP sessions and one ITC session to see if we could communicate with Mark or his guardian entities and we obtained some pretty amazing results. If you would like to see this awesome video, you can watch it by clicking the link. Paranormal Afterlife Soul Umbra Invocation Analysis
Throughout the years, I have heard many people talk about how their pets see, hear and sense the invisible realms and I have also had my fair share of it as well. I do wonder though, why it is that ghost pictures of animals are much more rare than ghost pictures of people. Getting evidence of animal spirits are more difficult to do. I believe that perhaps it is because most pets and animals do not hang around on the Earth plane like many human spirits will. There have also been many encounters of animal ghosts that were killed by an accident or that were viciously slaughtered in a slaughter house. They are restless spirits and they are usually ones that can be more easy to find and document as they may not realize they have passed on or they may have an attachment - which is rare for an animal but not impossible. I do feel that the majority of our loving pets do not hang around the Earth plane as they do not have the kind of hang-ups that people do which will attach them to this plane, but that they come back purposely to say hi and send their love. I think that is the major reason why getting a lot of paranormal evidence on pets is much more difficult to do.
If your pet has had an encounter with a ghost that you would like to share, please email me at the address below. Thanks for reading!
Who or what is God? Billions of people have so many varied and diverse answers to that one never-ending question. Some believe there is a god and some believe that to be utter nonsense. Some believe in something else entirely. Some believe that it is a being and to others, it is a state of being.
All over the world in different religions, cultures and even time periods, beliefs vary greatly; however, one common factor is that the ‘general’ populace in all of those religions, cultures and time periods give praise or respect to one or more deities. This number is definitely diminishing though as more and more people are exploring their spiritual paths and are seriously questioning everything that they thought their world to be. From the most ancient times in cave dwellings all around the world, humanoids carved pictographs, hieroglyphs, etc. into the walls showing such worship and respect to a higher being; and now in the modern day, we have books such as the Holy Bible, the Quran, the Torah, the Tao Te Ching, the Sutras and the Vedas – to name a few. These books outline their religious beliefs in one or more divine deity. A god or gods have always been something that people continue to worship in one way or another, including Satan. In times past, some would deify kings, emperors and other prestigious leaders.
When you really stop to think about it and spend serious amounts of research time digging around in hard-to-find places – both physically and spiritually, a shocking truth emerges that is very difficult for people to accept out of sheer fear, denial and/or care – or perhaps ignorance of the subject.
First let me say that NO ONE can write a 100% truth about this subject (so don’t stone the messenger) but also do know that there are beings on this Earth that do know 100% truth in what we (as multi-cultured, various belief beings) call our god or gods. No matter what your religion or your belief or disbelief, I am not trying to change anyone’s mind or what they believe as I respect what you choose to have faith in. I merely would like to put some food for thought on the table for you to contemplate – as great and inquiring minds do. Even if you are someone who can think ‘out of the box’, try to expand that to, ‘think beyond the multi-verse’.
Just so you know that I have some qualification to speak on this matter, I have spent a few decades researching this subject in many various ways. It goes along with the paranormal every which way you can think of. I have both an extensive scientific and spiritual background. My scientific background is in physics, but I have also studied chemistry, biology and astrophysics. Spiritually, I have been a sage for 37 years. I have been doing advanced psychic and paranormal work and research for that amount of time professionally, not to mention all the time spent in studies and practice. I have worked with thousands of people and have been a spiritual teacher for most of my life. Also, when I talk about paranormal research, I do not just refer to paranormal investigations, although that is certainly a part of it, but my biggest interest lies in research. I do many and varied experiments and then build on those experiments to gain knowledge and make important discoveries – in which I have made numerous. Another thing I’d like to mention is that since my earliest memory – something of the paranormal nature took place on a regular basis in my life. Now as the adult that I am, the paranormal isn’t just a hobby or a fascination, it is not a thrill or a way to have fun passing time; it is an everyday part of my life and a big one! Seven days a week – everyday I have one or many paranormal experiences. There isn’t a day that goes by where I do not experience or interact with some type of entity. This doesn’t include all of the interaction I get from engaging in experiments on a daily basis. After work and on weekends, this is my life. Even during the day in work or just whatever I may be doing – the paranormal is there. There is a reason for the way that I am but it has nothing to do with the death of loved ones or any reason that might seem to apply from a human perspective. I am here as a teacher among other reasons so let’s move on.
The human body is like a transportation vehicle; both have a lot of intricate parts that are separated into several working systems and each system works together in harmony to function as a whole unit. It is no doubt that a human body is certainly quite amazing. Is it miraculous? Of course it is – from an Earth human’s perspective. (I’m not going alien on you here) Hint: Think outside of the multi-verse.
How about a car? Is that miraculous? Sure is! How much thought, hard work, trial and error went into even coming up with the concept of a working engine. With so many parts that have to be correctly designed and to work together no less, it had to have been quite a feat to bring that into being. An engine and a human body have quite a bit in common. They have an electrical system, a nervous system which sends signals, sensors like an endocrine system, a circulatory system such a blood pumping from the heart and oil pumping through the engine, digestive/urinary system – well the car has an exhaust system and they both have a CPU – car – computer unit( Engine control module), human – brain or biological CPU. Let’s even go with a respiratory system – the car can get vacuum leaks. Vehicles have great similarities to the workings of a human body, yet unlike the materials used to produce a vehicle, we lack the raw materials and engineering know-how in which to construct a human body. With engines, we use the best known materials that are available to us in order to fabricate parts. Cars were engineered by humans. They are usually well built and run good but of course over time, parts wear down and break. Things get old and eventually the car needs to find its resting place in the scrap yard. Sometimes, even though the vehicle was top-of-the-line factory-precision made, you can end up with a lemon – and then there are all kinds of issues.
The human body is extremely similar. Perhaps the original raw materials were not something that was available on this planet to begin with, but of course we do have them now, thanks to reverse engineering. We are constructed with fine precision and extreme minute detail. We are programmed better and better in each era as human’s progress through time. Our construction is far from perfect as we certainly ‘break down’ as much as a car. We can run great for years and then we find ourselves in the ‘shop’ to get fixed. Unfortunately sometimes a human can be born a ‘lemon’ and some issue more severe occurs. In the end, we all end up in the ‘scrap yard’. Obviously a human is more complex than a vehicle but it was a good analogy.
So hopefully you can see where I am going with this. There is GOD and then there are gods. Someone or something is out there watching its creation very carefully so what is it that can observe an entire planet full of people to know what is going on? Ok, in reality, it is more like, whom or what is it that can observe an entire multi-verse and know what the heck is happening? I have always said that there are worlds within worlds and paradoxes within paradoxes and this appears to be imbedded into an infinite loop. If you do believe in a god, then the god or gods you are praying to are probably the ones that you shouldn’t be. This is complicated and complex so I want to break this down into three categories.
1. Our god/gods – (Creator Gods) these are the beings that did the engineering of human kind and who knows what other kind they may have constructed as well. They are very advanced scientists that created physical bodies. The humans were very primitive in the beginning and as time moved on, their creations became more sophisticated and more intelligent. Just like we have been doing with car technology – improving all systems as time go on. These beings made us in their likeness (sound familiar) – humanoid biological life-forms. It is not impossible to create a life form and I am not talking about having a baby. Now that the humans on this planet have the technology, they are cloning body parts, organs and making full biological clones of animals and people. So am I talking alien technology – for the most part I would have to go with yes due to the fact that these gods originally did not come from Earth – well some did. The Earth has certain chemicals, minerals, gasses and ecological, as well as atmospheric parameters. They made their creations to fit these parameters. There was also more than one species that created man in their image.
You see the replicas of these species all over our world. Please – by no means am I trying to sound racist here – I am just referring to people this way to make a point about how the different races of humanoids populated our planet. So they say it all started in Africa – and hey that may be true but in any case, the dark skinned people there are from one race of humanoid, the light skinned people were placed in Europe and the UK, the Asian people were placed in the Asian countries and the Indian people were placed in India and the Americas. Don’t feel left out if I didn’t include your country, etc. as this was just to make a point. Was this by accident that out of all the countries there are, we were grouped by race to begin with? No accident at all! Sure we are all humans sharing the same planet but there is no doubt, we are also different and not just in skin color and facial features but also bone structures and other internal differences that only the medical and scientific communities that study that area of biology are informed on. Some are very subtle differences but some are very apparent. Even certain diseases affect races differently and some are specific to those races. This is because the humanoids that created us were all different humanoids as well. Maybe it was a collaborated project.
It has been extremely documented all throughout history from the beginnings of man that there are ‘superior’ beings – not just one, who played major roles in humanity’s creation and evolution. These are major players in creation from a human viewpoint. These are the beings we pray to and the beings that may or may not answer our prayers. They are the ones who show human emotion and vanity. Did you notice that the human body is FAR from perfect? I’m not saying I could do better – but wouldn’t it be nice to never have a toothache or organ failure? Could a perfect god create the entire universe, a perfect planet for beings to live on, but then create imperfect creatures that they keep wiping out and starting over with – called evolution.
Could an all loving, perfect and unconditional being really order people to murder their own in his name to test them and then insist you worship them and praise them? Isn’t that vanity, power and ego? These are things that we are taught that is evil, yet these gods are guilty of even worse sin then the ones they damn you for. You shouldn’t have to fear a person you love, that is abuse. If god can make miracles happen, and god can – why does he pick and choose who will get one? Is it our own free will or maybe just having faith? No, but that is what we are lead to believe. When our time is up, it is up. Why does god want us to fear him – control right? These are all imperfections from a being that is amazing enough to create everything - from a being that demands our loyalty and worship. We are his servants – what is wrong with this picture? We fear burning in the pits of hell so we comply. We do what we are told like good children. If your child did something he shouldn’t have but didn’t regret it, would you send him to the fiery pits of hell to be tortured for eternity with no chance of forgiveness?? If a parent really did that, wouldn’t that be horrifying?? Wouldn’t you burn in hell? I really could go on and on and on. From this point on, the subject of religion starts to intermingle and gets all tied up into politics but on a level that you and I will never be privy to unless we become very unlucky so I’ll stop at this point for now.
2. THEE GOD – The true creator – but it even goes beyond that point. The one that I refer to as THEE GOD is because other gods – ones that we know, wouldn’t be here without this god. This is a god that has created the entire multi-verse and all of its true magnificence, mystery and chaos. This god – which is really more than one – dwells outside of the entire multi-verse. There is an entire universe outside of our universe and their ‘scientists’ created our multi-verse. It is somewhat like a mirror universe to ours. There are beings from that mirror world that do come into this one and for many reasons. The place where the angels and the so-called fallen reside are on the very border of where the two meet – the mirror multi-verse and ours. The angels – aka – beings that observe, can do so from this extremely sophisticated structure – which really isn’t tangible at all unless you are able to go through it to the other world.
Our universe, our beings, everything that exists here, is all based on a type of computer code, duality/balance, sacred geometry and math – so pretty much – a science experiment. No I am not a conspiracy theorist – just someone who not only can see and hear into many worlds as well as a huge research nerd. If you dig long enough and use your psychic abilities with it – you start to get into some hairy stuff. Not only that, but our scientists are making these discoveries as well.
3. Deities – Self-proclaimed, mythological, deified by others.
There are many gods that are downright outrageous like the god of farts, and many gods that do very evil things, including the Christian god. For example, why would you send fallen angels to earth to rule the Earth and hurt the children you love? Makes sense to me. We have to suffer in order to appreciate the suffering of god’s son? What? Should I make everyone I know miserable if I am having a bad day? Enough of that. There are gods in this category who are divided between gods that were born from the primordial soup and gods that used to be kings or other prominent figures that were deified. With research, you can find that many so-called gods were nothing more than kings – regular human beings that happened to have a seat in power.
The supernatural always played a part in what humans perceived so when superior beings showed up – they were revered as gods as well. Many of these supernatural beings were just our scientific creators, but some could just pop into being – almost like a ghost but they were not ghosts; just beings that had very advanced technology to travel where they wanted. When you are a primitive creature with none of the ‘everyday luxuries’ that we take for granted, these beings brought primitive man to their knees. Even now, if a superiorly advance being was to teleport to you – you would certainly be very thrown off or even downright scared.
Mythology carries its own place in the world of gods. Some of these mythological gods did exist as the other worldly beings that they were and some were tales told to control, created and distributed by the newest victors of the latest wars and battles. Primordial gods are considered true supernatural beings that weren’t ‘born’. Behind many of our deities, are creator gods that put certain humans into play to achieve their goals.
Mythologies are created when prominent people do something magnificent that stands out to the people. Most of these people are kings and war heroes. “Mythology is history as written by the victors of war and the hero of one act of that era will self-proclaim themselves as a god.” This was quoted from a being that is to remain anonymous.
So these are the three categories of gods. Now I would like to explain how we are observed using something such as the ant theory – which I have written on before in another blog but I will briefly go over it now. Say you loved ants so you purchased four hundred ant farms and placed them in one large room. You had them lined up in rows both horizontally and vertically so you now have twenty lines down by twenty lines across of ant farms. In order to care for them properly, you assign forty people you trust to watch over ten ant farms each. These people will be responsible for observing the ants in their care. These forty people are now considered a supreme, superior and invisible force that has complete control and impact on each of the little ant farm worlds.
The ants in one farm are contained in their own little world. They more than likely will not even realize that the farms next to them even exist much less notice the ants crawling around in it. So if the ant farm next to them is a far stretch, then the ones two rows over are an impossibility, let alone the ones all the way across the room. We might compare that to us not being able to see what is completely across the universe, but that is still something that would not be correct to say, as to those little lives, they can’t begin to fathom something like that. Something like the ants across a room is non-existent and not any of their worry or concern. They are just going about their own business. If these ants can’t even begin to try to understand, comprehend or just be aware that there is a room full of ant farms, then the room itself would be something they could never hope to realize, let alone the building the room is located in, the street the building is on, the town, the state, country, world, or universe. Their entire universe is in that little ant farm – they know none other. Their caretaker, which they have no clue is even there watching over them, observing everything they are doing, is now their god. This caretaker can easily help them by providing food, causing a flood, causing an earthquake, providing shelter, fixing a tunnel they dug – they could wreak havoc or create a miracle – saving or taking those lives. So who is it that is so supreme they can be watching us without us ever knowing they exist or even begin to fathom it?
A deity is defined as a supernatural being considered to be divine or sacred. Another definition is that they are anything revered as divine. A third, more modern definition of a deity is a being with powers greater than those of ordinary humans, but who interacts with humans, positively or negatively, in ways that carry humans to new levels of consciousness beyond the grounded preoccupations of ordinary life. This definition includes the three types of deities and that can include certain humans.
The engineers that populated this world, as well as the observers from beyond the multi-verse, both have the means to appear on this planet – as well as other places depending on which they are, as supernatural beings. Some can and do incarnate to live among us – even though others do not have to incarnate to do the same thing. Most of these incarnated beings have amazing supernatural powers and were/are enlightened sages and prophets.
Before there was too much of a governmental control, when people were controlled by religion, the deities would be worshiped by the people and stayed loyal due to both awe-inspiring acts and fear of what the deity was capable of. Certain conditions led to a tight clandestine bond between religion and administration. That extreme, behind-the-scenes influence had the clout to bring forth certain powerful religions for a largely united mass control. In these times, however, more and more people are becoming less and less religious and for good reason. The rebellious started to turn atheist or satanic – the spiritual turned new age and now that is broken down into two categories, new age and just plain spiritual as the spiritual have some kind of understanding that there is a powerful force – just perhaps not what has been brainwashing us and being shoved down our throat. In a very long time from now – far away in the future, perhaps thousands of years – our religions and beliefs will become their mythology.
There are billions of people who follow Christianity as this is the most popular religion in the world. If religions help a person to be happy and get through their life – then it is wonderful. While there is a source that provides miraculous occurrences, it is probably not coming from the place one might be thinking/praying of/to. The problem with any religion is that usually it is typical of a certain race, country or even gender. The religious all worship a god or many gods. Who is right and who is wrong? Any devoted believer will stand up for their own beliefs and some would even attack you in the name of their god. How many people have died because of religious wars? There are also so many incredible contradictions in religious beliefs such as god-fearing. In Christianity, you are expected to be loyal, a servant and to fear – yet god is unconditional love and forgiveness. If I wanted a loyal servant – someone to praise and worship me, wouldn’t I just be considered a vein jackass? Aren’t those characteristics man’s own boasting ego? So the perfect supreme being acts worse than I do because I would never impose those demands on another human being. Why didn’t Jesus come when the world was first created instead of waiting all that time? Why would god purposely temp with a tree of knowledge if he didn’t want his people to know – why tempt with forbidden fruit – isn’t that a set up – not right. God reveals many acts of extreme egotism and violence in the bible, but then again, have you ever noticed that most gods do? Think about what that means. Human emotions, human anger, human characteristics with the facade of unconditional love and forgiveness from a being that is demanding total obedience and forbids the very same acts as sins.
Most Christians feel that Paganism is based off of evil, yet Christianity is based off Paganism. Jesus chose certain people here on Earth as ‘his’ people – showing partiality which is not the character of a ‘fair’ god, but this all stemmed from the Babylonian war. After the Babylonian war, the bible came out. Just an interesting note here: remember good ol Satan? Well he was called Lucifer before his fall from heaven. Lucifer means light-barer. He was referred to as the Morning Star and so was Jesus. It stated that as the morning star vanishes in the daylight, so the devil fell from the heavens. The light-bearer was made reference to association with the planet Venus – the love planet. Even more significant than that, in Christianity, Lucifer is named as the king of Babylon and is a metaphor for the Prince of Devils. Many historians feel that Mosses was never a real person as they can find no evidence of him ever existing. Mother Mary’s Immaculate conception could simply be nothing more than our scientific engineer’s implantation. That would certainly seem more than miraculous to the people of that era.
Also, why is god a man? Why are almost all of the major deities men? Sure, there are some goddesses in different religions and cultures. You may say that god created man in his own image – you got that right! Our god – our engineers made us just like them and populated our planet – wiped us out several times and then re-populated it with a better version each time.
So many people – billions of people believe in one impression, they have a distinct created image in their minds and send potent thoughts of this energy into the energy fields. They give this being so much power because they are taught to do so from a young age. This creates a powerful force such as a tulpa- a sort of through-form with a personality, their own individuality and they do not need to attach to an energetic field to survive. They are like a powerful invisible entity. They can also interact with people and influence them both in a positive or negative way as well as call in other energetic thought-forms and entities that match the energy of the tulpa. I am not saying all gods are tulpas, but think about how many god clones may be out there listening and creating good or evil in this already crazy world.
Ok, there is a lot here and I think you get the idea, but you too can spend decades and decades researching almost everything I have written about. So who is God? That depends on what you want to believe. You can pray to our egotistical engineers who pick and choose at their own discretion (this is why most prayers are never answered) or you can pray to the creators outside of our own multi-verse and perhaps get assistance from an observer (angel or devil) or you can learn to work within the physics of our space-time or vacuum space called existence.
This post was in no way meant to influence, anger or harm anyone. You are entitled to whatever you want to follow and believe in. I do not have a religion and there are many circumstances in my life that lead me to post this. To some, this will resonate with you and to others, it may infuriate you, but all I ask is for you take charge of your life and do some research and soul searching. There is a powerful, loving force as well as a powerful, evil force. Duality is what this place we live in is made of. Duality is the good and bad forces -angels and demons in some religions, and are all called by different names but are basically the same concept. We as humans need to put an energy form in place so we can believe, even if that force is imperceptible. Just a note – if god represents miracles then he represents life. In this world of duality, you have to have balance so the opposite of life is death. There is the god of death – it may not be existent in your beliefs, but the god of death does exist in many religions and is feared as well as worshiped.
Like I said, some food for thought. You cannot have billions of people not under total control. If the law won’t keep your morals in check then maybe your god can if it means burning in hell for all eternity. There is even a higher education course on how humans are hard-wired for religion and to obey their creator.
Continue to pray and believe in a good force. Keep miracles coming your way by learning to mesh your vibration and frequency to that of the universe. There is much more to this than you can even being to imagine when you start to understand that everything you experience everyday is in reality not reality.
To conclude, I am not saying that gods are not real – they just might not be what you think.
Check out my YouTube video that has some interesting EVPs from spirits concerning religion. Watch the video here. Click here.
I’m going to talk about a subject that has become a very touchy one in the paranormal community. In a word – orbs. Just saying that seems to stir up an argument. As a serious paranormal researcher of thirty-seven years, I wanted to give you my take on orbs and perhaps help to quell the ridiculous arguments that occur on this sensitive subject. Let’s take an equitable view at dense energy spheres (DES™) vs. natural orbs. A DES™ is what I call a true spiritual presence and a natural orb is any natural form of matter that is not connected with a spiritual presence such as dust, moisture, rain, insects and other anomalies that can be explained as other than paranormal.
While I believe it is true that the orb phenomena became an epidemic that people ran away with, I also believe that there are true paranormal orbs that can still assist in paranormal research under the right conditions, so they shouldn’t be completely dismissed. Some popular or famous researchers ‘say so’ – so it must be true – this is what paranormal researchers tend to ‘listen to’ and make part of their own rules and protocol; but I have learned, and I also teach the one and only rule in paranormal research and that is – “There are no rules!” I say this because things are constantly changing and just when you think something has a particular behavior, that theory is shot to hell.
When I first started out, the only equipment I had was a cassette tape recorder, a thermometer and a regular film camera. None of this fancy high-tech ghost equipment existed. You could get an IR (infrared) camera or thermal imaging camera, but back then they were ridiculously expensive. With a regular camera or ‘normal’ camcorder, it was very rare to capture on orb on film. Even if you did, then you had to try to figure out what it was caused from and there can be many reasons and sources for that orb. Now with digital cameras and advanced technology, capturing orbs is so very much easier, but the majority of those orbs are not paranormal at all.
So there are two sides to this story and I want to talk about each side. There is the pro side of exploring and studying orbs and the con side of it – which is basically debunking which are really DES™, or dense energy spheres, and which are not. I myself have had very interesting experiences with orbs that would not allow me, as a paranormal researcher, to dismiss it so easily. These experiences are not just what I managed to capture on still pictures, moving pictures and IR/UV pics, but also from seeing them physically outright and interacting with them. I have known many others who have physically seen orbs. Some of these people are psychic such as myself, and some are not.
So let’s start with the pros about orbs. Orbs can be many things and we will discuss that in the cons section of this post. When you get a picture of an orb, it is important that you do the best you can to come to the belief that it is indeed spirit energy by ruling out any other natural causes and reasons. In most cases, it will not be a true spirit orb. The human spirit, and also many non-human spirits, is comprised of energy. This energy gives off its own unique signature and force. The spirit contains an energy beacon which creates its own light source so this is something to look for when you are scrutinizing your orb for authenticity. Does the orb show its own power? Does it appear to have its own source of light and motion? Does it show response or can you get it to reappear? There are literally a slew of questions to ask.
Transporting from place to place as what we refer to as a DES™ orb, is actually a natural state of being for a deceased spirit and many other kinds of spirit beings. This is not to say that they can’t appear to you in many different forms, but their innate form is a gathering or more commonly, a sphere of intelligent energy. I have witnessed both psychically and physically, many DES™ orbs. I have seen them with my physical eyes where they do appear as either white, whitish-blue or even black, or shadow orbs. When I astral travel, I also travel as compacted energy. I do not have a physical form at all.
I have conducted decades of research into orbs and have found many that I feel are authentic. DES™ are perfectly round. That seems to be the one constant that holds true out of all of the possibilities that you will run across. Of course I am open to the possibility that something could happen to make me question that constant. I had exposure to a haunted house that would produce orb pictures not only on IR/UV and digital cameras, but also on thermal imagers and film cameras as well. Now I’m not saying if an orb shows up on a film camera it is automatically a DES™ – just that it may be more likely than with the other types of cameras. Having access to this haunted home, I was able to get used to the very active spirit activity that occurred on an almost daily basis. The ghosts got to know me as well so they weren’t as camera shy. I would ask them to pose for pictures in random places throughout the house. Many times, an orb would appear in the places that I requested them to be. I’m not talking about asking them to cooperate a few times; I did over ninety experiments within a thirteen year period of time. The results were intriguing to say the least. It was uncanny how many times the energy would respond to my requests - far more than mere coincidence. I would also use other equipment to validate my findings such as temperature sensors, motion sensors, thermal imaging, IR and UV capabilities, EVP and ITC methods, various sensors and computer technology to name some. When you do find a true DES™ orb, there is a lot you can learn from it if you can gain access often to the establishment you are studying.
I have found orbs that exhibited their own power, motion, light and intelligence. I have witnessed an orb morph into a shape of a body part. There are orbs out there that definitely deserve to be studied and learned from. They may not all be deceased human beings, as there are many types of existences in this vast multi-verse.
These orbs above are not DES™ - not spirit orbs.
On the side of the con’s – unfortunately there are many. It is extremely difficult to snap a few hundred pictures on an investigation and say, hey I got six orbs and feel you struck pay dirt. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work this way. This is a common mistake in new investigators and researchers. What is even more common and seems to get more newcomers falsely excited is when they get pictures with a slew of orbs in them. It is difficult enough to try to capture one true orb in a picture, let alone an entire picture full of them.
I did say before that there really are no rules in the paranormal world, as once you start to believe that something is one particular way, boom – it all changes. The deeper you dig, the more you find that to be ever so true. If you stick with it long enough, you start to question your very existence. With orbs, there is a possibility that you can obtain multiple true DES™ orbs in one picture but the odds of that is tremendously unlikely unless you come across an open portal or dimensional gateway that just happens to be present and open too, but even then, it would be pushing it. I have come across portals and gateways – very few in all my years and out of those gateways, it is still a rarity to find multiple DES™ occurring together but it does happen.
The majority of orbs are from dust particles that are comprised of many ‘natural’ and gross things such as dead skin particles and stuff that makes up everyday dust. You could have the cleanest house in the world and still capture a room full of dust orbs.
Another type of common orb caught in pictures is the very colorful ones. Probably more than ninety-nine percent of the time, these orbs will be from moisture in the air. This does not mean it has to be a rainy evening or that you are in a swamp area. It could be dry out and you could still film these moisture orbs. Another reason for a color orb could be from a reflection. The reflection against moisture could cause the color orb, but reflections off windows and other surfaces could cause a color to appear.
It is very difficult to get absolutely no light involved in your investigation or research. You probably wouldn’t be filming anything in that case. Even if you are in the complete darkness, no windows, no electricity, no light coming from under doors – there is still a light that comes from your IR and UV devices, light from sensors, light from other equipment and because of that, you will always have reflective surfaces which can cause orbs, light streaks and other anomalies. This is why it is imperative to take note of your position and to take more than one picture in any given position. Taking note of all light sources is paramount. Making a floor plan is important because you can debunk your orbs and other suspicious phenomenon much easier. Of course the ‘there is no rules’ rule can come into play and you can get that one rare orb that does exert a color source of its own but in thirty-seven years I have only come across very, very few.
If you are to find a DES™ orb that seems to exude a color, you may find white, bluish-white or black, there may even be red but this is certainly exceptional.
People have mistaken bugs and insects for orbs as well. It is usually easy to differentiate them from an orb because they are usually not perfectly round or they are asymmetric. Sometimes, depending on the timing of the picture and the insect itself, it can appear quite round so they can be mistaken for an orb.
A digital artist depiction of an open gateway.
In my honest opinion based on years of extensive and meticulous research, any orb is almost impossible to deem a true DES™ unless you have the opportunity to go back and try to recreate the situation to prove or debunk it and perform multiple experiments looking for true spirit activity. That is why one-shots like an investigation or a night at a haunted place will not usually provide you with the proof you need to claim an orb as DES™. However, there are apparitions that are not real either and not from mental illness, but from actual paranormal claims.
There are always exceptions to everything and this holds especially true in the paranormal world. DES™ orbs that have shown response and intelligence do not always appeared bright as sometimes they look dull. Energy can be higher or lower at times depending on the amount that is being used and its source for replenishment. I have seen DES ™ orbs that I was working with fade and then dissipate. I have seen other DES™ orbs fade and then transform.
Some people will notice patterns or faces in orbs. Many people will argue that these things are not true DES™ orbs as well and so be it – but there are exceptions. The most impressive one happened during an experiment from another person that I know. This person was conducting research in one particular area for over a year when an orb held the face of an older woman. The woman was recognized by the owner of the establishment as her deceased mother. The orb that showed itself over a dozen times in that year was the only one to demonstrate responsiveness and intelligence. There were many other orbs present in that experiment, but none other could be called into question as anything more than a ‘normal’ source of matter. This doesn’t mean that anytime you see an orb with a face it is a true DES™. There has to be something significant to back that up.
Orbs in motion, orbs protruding from or exiting a vortex, string orbs – these are rarities that also have been confused with animal hair, camera straps and various other normal causes. Usually these are not paranormal – but there are very rare occurrences indeed. My point is that to rule them out simply because it takes a lot of time and effort to find them and study them, is to ignore a part of the paranormal world simply because most researchers and investigators don’t go into extensive research so it is easy to brush it off as an amateurish thing to do.
Nikola Tesla and his Tesla Coils
A good researcher will utilize all available means to investigate or research their subject. The paranormal is a spiritual subject – not religious, but functions on the spiritual plane. In order to acquire the best findings, you cannot simply employ scientific methods only or spiritual methods only. You must combine both in order to make true advancements in this area. You may have read me quoting Nikola Tesla before but I will do it again and again. This man was so far ahead of his time. His amazing inventions were obtained in his mind from spiritual sources. He is quoted as saying, “The day science begins to study non-physical phenomena, it will make more progress in one decade than in all the previous centuries of its existence.”
Another great quote of his that I love is, “My brain is only a receiver; in the Universe there is a core from which we obtain knowledge, strength and inspiration.”
I am a very firm believer in Nikola Tesla, his research and extraordinary advancements. This man understood that there are paranormal forces at work and they intertwine and interact with our reality and our lives on a daily basis. He was a part of that world as well as being an exquisitely brilliant engineer and scientist. A scientific mind combined with a spiritual focus – look what he has accomplished by ignoring naysayers, thinking for himself and not excluding possibilities.
Believe what you want and do as you wish, but to truly get to the core of the paranormal world, you cannot overlook anything at all. Happy researching!
A pendulum can be a very useful tool for divination work and for healing. I’m going to give you the basics in using a pendulum to get you started. Any reading can be done without tools but the purpose of using one is to help you to focus which provides more concentrated energy to work with. When using a tool, you need to know how you are acquiring the information brought forth by that tool. Behind every psychic tool, there is an energy working to bring the information that you seek to your awareness. It isn’t magick – it is energy. Energy comes in many shapes, sizes, strengths, and intelligence. Know that your pendulum does not move just because – unless you do that on purpose – it is moving because there is a spiritual energy assisting you whether you realize it or not. A pendulum can be very useful for many things.
A pendulum is a weighted object which is suspended on a string, chain or another type of material that can make it easy to swing. You can pretty much use anything for a pendulum but you can also buy a pendulum just about anywhere like Amazon, metaphysical stores and other places online. I would like to suggest that you use a gemstone pendulum as this type of object is something that will carry and build on your own energy. It will also ‘get used’ to working with you and will produce better and better results over time as it retains a sort of ‘memory’.
There are all types of gemstones so you might want to keep that in mind when choosing your pendulum. I suggest that you start off by using a clear quartz pendulum as this is a type of ‘all purpose’ crystal. It is very versatile and you can use it for anything and everything. If you choose a more defined crystal such as a rose quartz – that would be great to use in questions concerning love or if you choose blue lace agate, this would be great to use when you are working with kindness, peace and wisdom. You can use specialized crystals if you do a certain type of work with your pendulum, but clear quartz is great to use for any type of question or circumstance.
It is also very beneficial if you can hold the pendulum to see if you can resonate with it before you purchase it. It is very important that you find your crystal pendulum appealing and that the energy meshes with yours. You will be forming a type of bond with this spiritual instrument.
You do not need to use a crystal, but they tend to work best and grow with you. You could put a ring from your jewelry collection on a piece of yarn and use that if the ring has a bit of weight to it. You just want to be sure that it swings easily. Using doubled up sewing thread of embroidery yarn is better. Try to avoid materials such as leather or a hard cord as these can sometimes limit your pendulum's swing. You don’t want your string to be too long as this will make it harder to use and it will take more energy to swing the pendulum. The same thing goes for the string being too short. Approximately 7 or 8 inches would be a good place to start and you can adjust it to your liking as you go on.
You can use your pendulum to get answers about your life, to help you to make decisions, to do readings for yourself or others, to aid in healing sessions, to make spirit communication, to use for experiment sessions and to even aid in finding lost items.
Pendulums do not move on their own as it is an inanimate object but rather they are helped along by energy. Whose energy is moving the pendulum? It is a combination of your own energy and the energy of whatever entity you enlist to assist you. You can call on your spirit guide, an angel, a master teacher or even your higher self among others. Your energy creates the intention to perform the action of the pendulum reading and in forming the question as well as receiving the answer. The entity assisting you has access to information that they can provide and they will combine their energy with yours in order to make the pendulum move in response to your question. It is very important that you stay focused during the entire process because you act as both a sender to your assistant, and a receiver to get the answers from your assistant.
There are dangers that come with using a pendulum – or any divination tool. Even if you do not use tools and you just depend solely on your abilities, you still face dangers. Everyone has an aura and from that aura, you produce a beacon of light that shines into the astral like a lighthouse tower spotlight. All spiritual and astral beings are capable of reading that beacon. If you leave yourself unprotected, then your beacon is wide open and inviting to all entities, both good and evil. There are different layers of energy that entities dwell on. Lower level entities tend to be anywhere from malevolent to extremely angry and can be quite dangerous. The higher the level – which means the energy on that level vibrates at a faster rate, the higher the evolution of the entity that will see your beacon. You can and always should raise your own energy level before participating in any kind of psychic or paranormal endeavor, as well as employ a variety of psychic protection and shielding.
Demonic beings are another story in themselves. They are more than capable of seeing and deciphering your beacon, and even when using your intention and protection, they can get around a lot of that if they really have a reason to do so. They are extremely intelligent beings and even though they dwell on lower realms, they do not necessarily have a low energy vibration. If you are new at practicing psychic abilities, or if you are lax at utilizing protection, then you make a very tempting target. Just like a burglar, they would rather go for the unlocked easy entry than the one that is locked and guarded by a huge mean dog with lots of sharp teeth. However, with some burglars, even the dog and locked door will not deter them if they know you have something that valuable that they want to get their hands on. Demonic beings act the same way. It all depends on what they are after and what they see as the prize. Each has different capabilities, motivations and personalities. The good news is that demonic beings usually do not want to play with you unless you may be easy prey, but they need an invitation to possess you. They do not need one to harass you however. Keep in mind that demonic entities will not just come after you – many times they go after the ones you love instead in order to get to you, wear you down and win you over – kind of like a hostile takeover.
I just wanted to mention the demonic beings because not only are they very real, but they can come through when practicing or engaged in any psychic or paranormal activity – although very, very rare. There are a lot of variables that go into what you are doing, that will attract what entities come to you. Like attracts like - this is very true of energy. Your mood, your words, the people around you, the atmosphere you are in, your demeanor, your intention, your client, your experiment, energy level – these all play a part in what energy comes to you and what counter measures you should take before partaking in your spiritual work. Sometimes, it is better to just skip it until conditions are better.
The best pendulums to use are crystals and then metals. They both hold energy so they are the best choices. All elements have elemental spirits that govern over them. With a crystal, a nature spirit such as an earth spirit, will usually be present with that crystal. This is another reason I prefer to use crystals. It is also the reason why it is best if you can hold your crystal pendulum before you purchase it in order to see if your energies compliment or repel each other.
Before you set up and use your pendulum, always make sure that you cleanse it to remove any negative energy that may be trapped inside the crystal or held within your metal. Even if you use a pendulum that is made of heavy plastic or glass, you still want to cleanse it, as energy can stay around any object. Cleansing the pendulum and then charging it will produce the best results and give you the most accurate readings. There are many methods of cleansing and charging. One simple method of cleansing to get your started would be to run the item under cold water until you feel all of the negative energy is gone and then ask an angel to transmute that negative force into love or healing energy. You can use a singing bowl to cleanse your pendulum as well. Charging your pendulum is as easy as putting it in the moonlight overnight or even for a few hours. You can also charge it by drawing in energy of high vibration from the universe. Your pendulum should be cleansed after each use and charged when you feel the energy getting low, depending on how often you use it. I would charge it often if you are just starting out.
Another thing that would really help to increase the accuracy of your readings and ‘bond’ with your divine instrument is to ask the elemental spirit that watches over your pendulum to assist you with your readings. This is best achieved utilizing meditation. Always be respectful to this nature spirit and thank them every time you use it and benefit from their help. It is also a good idea to get to know this nature spirit by psychically communicating during meditation sessions to get to know how to resonate with each other. It would be considered bad etiquette and bad manners as well as rude to ignore the nature spirit of your pendulum as they can also affect how well your pendulum works. They can override your spirit guide as they are the ones who ‘rule’ over the pendulum.
The simple pendulum board is a good example; however, you should allow your guide or assisting entity to pick the directional response.
You don’t need anything fancy to do a basic pendulum reading. Some people like to have, or better yet, make a pendulum board, but that is totally not necessary. Pendulums have limited use with only yes/no answers - but the information you get from them can and does prompt your psychic abilities to continue getting further valuable information. A pendulum board can be made out of a piece of cardboard for easy re-use or you can just use a piece of plain paper. Ask your spirit assistant and your nature spirit to give you their preferences and then make the board accordingly. What I mean by this is to ask them which direction the pendulum will swing when the answer is a yes. Then mark that direction with the word yes. Do the same for no. Usually, the pendulum will move in a circle if an answer is a maybe or is uncertain. The pendulum can also move in a different diagonal direction. There are reasons why spirit will not reveal answers to questions and that has to do with the person you are reading for – even if it is for yourself. If the information will interfere with a life lesson or something that needs to occur, the information will not be revealed.
You don’t even need a board to do this work at all. Simply ask spirit which way is yes, no, and maybe. Honestly, using maybe serves no purpose. Just ask again another time. Now you can begin the session. Remember, at this point, you should already have a cleansed and charged instrument, your psychic protection and shield should be strong, your spirit guide or other entity should be called upon and your nature spirit should be ready. It sounds like a lot but once you get it all together, it will only take a few minutes to get everything in place and it is well worth it – especially for your own safety and the safety of those you care about.
Pendulum energy circuit and stabilization
The best way to go about asking your question and waiting for the response is to wrap the string of the pendulum around your finger one time and then place your fingers with the pendulum hanging up to your third eye. This will create a direct line circuit for your divine connection. Keep your elbow on the table or surface you are using in order to prevent moving the pendulum yourself. The combination of keeping your elbow on a firm surface and your fingers resting on your third eye, keeps you from accidentally swinging the pendulum without realizing that you may be doing so. Adding your other arm will also help to make the connection a complete circuit as well as adding stabilization to your reading. The connection you make with this method also makes it easier for your spirit guide or other entity to use the energy circuit and give you stronger swings. Place the pendulum in the center of your board or if you are not using a board, just hang the pendulum where it is comfortable for you and proceed with your question. After you get your response, stop the pendulum from swinging and center it again. You can then move on to your next question. The picture above shows this very effective energy circuit positioning.
If you find that your pendulum does not want to answer a question or the answer is inconsistent, try wording the question differently. It is a good idea to keep a pendulum journal in order to write down your personal questions and responses as well as anything you may take note of such as any symbols, colors, scents, pictures and such - that come into your mind during a session. You may want to take notes as to how your pendulum behaves because the entity you are working with will have preferences. Keep in mind that it is more difficult for your guide to come through and use your energy than it is for you to hold the pendulum and focus, so you want to be accepting of their preferences. A journal is another tool you can use to record your experiences and then look back to see similarities and discover ways your guide is trying to communicate with not only you and your tool, but grow your psychic abilities as well.
Something else that I have to say – PLEASE, always know what entity is helping you with your readings no matter what kind you are doing. You can ask Archangel Michael – the warrior angel – to keep all negative energies and entities away from coming to you. Once you gain the attention of a negative spirit or energy, it is very difficult to get rid of it, so play it safe and don’t take chances. Use your protection tools always – even in meditation! Some entities find loopholes or weaknesses in your protection so knowing what entity you are working with is a must. Also, working constantly and consistently with that one trusted entity will make your readings stronger and stronger, but until you know who you are working with - you must be extremely careful.
When your session is completed, formally close it by stating that you are finished asking questions and properly thank your spirit guide and nature spirit for their help. Ask Archangel Michael to escort all entities that may have come through during your session back to where they came from. Cleanse your pendulum right away, especially if you feel that any negative energy was present or if your pendulum was not as responsive as it usually is or should be.
Once you are finished cleansing your pendulum, you can put it safely away in any kind of protective container. That container should be cleansed of negative energy as well by passing it through sage smoke a few times or using a crystal such as black obsidian. There are many different ways to cleanse and purify. Whatever container you choose to house your pendulum in, do not use it for anything but that purpose – to store this important tool. It is also a good idea to not let anyone else handle your pendulum as their energy will imprint on it and it can throw off your readings. Remember that your pendulum stores your energy and this is a good thing because it makes it more powerful each time you use it. This is why it is very important to only use your pendulum when your spirits are high, when your mood is elevated and you are happy and thinking clearly.
Never use any psychic tool or ability – or even participate in any paranormal endeavor under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Don’t engage in psychic or paranormal activities if you are overtired, run down, sick or depressed as these energies will become absorbed by your pendulum. Not only that, but your energy signature will be significantly lowered therefore making your psychic protection and shield very weak. Your chances of becoming a target to negative energies and entities will become higher and so are your chances at an encounter that you will not want to experience.
If your thing is healing – you can place your pendulum over a person or animal to ask where issues are located. If the person is not present, you can use a picture of them and ask questions about the possible issues.
Once you gain experience, you can advance your readings by adding numbers to your pendulum board and/or letters but you need to be very careful as this is similar to a Ouija board and if you were to make your own board, there are ways to make it safer.
If you can think of a way to use your pendulum, then it is totally possible to use it for that purpose. Pendulums are not bad or evil. It is the intention behind them and the way the diviner approaches and conducts the session that can make the experience good or evil. Knowledge is power and protection so don't go into a new psychic or paranormal endeavor without your sword and shield.
With any new psychic undertaking, it takes time, patience and practice to build your skill so keep working at it, but never take short-cuts on the psychic precautions. Nothing is set in stone when it comes to how you use your pendulum. I can give you a way to start, but as you gain experience and a relationship with the entity that helps you with your readings, you will form your own way to best utilize your divine tool.
Enjoy your pendulum and have fun!
Divination comes in many shapes, sizes and forms. It is used all over the world by so many walks of life. Divination is older than dirt and some of the ancient methods are a bit more than unorthodox or even unethical - even inhumane. Some are just simple and to the point and others are much more difficult or plain weird.
The following are some of the lesser known but not too invasive methods for you to ponder.
Gastromancy – this is a divination method where the diviner uses the sounds of the stomach to interpret the future or to make predictions. The diviner could also get omens from the marks upon the subjects belly. This practice is extremely ancient and the first known gastromancer was Eurycles from the year 1016.
Osteomancy – began around 300 BC This is the divination practice of throwing bones almost like tossing dice. The position of the bones are interpreted in relation to the question asked or the information that one is inquiring about. The bones are believed to contain the spirit of the animal that they were acquired from and many practitioners will enlist the cooperation of that spirit to aid them in accurate readings. You can buy a starter bone set online.
Some practitioners work with bones that have been placed in a fire producing cracks that can then be used to make predictions. This is called pyro-osteomancy. It dates back to prehistoric Asia. Some diviners used the scapula for this practice therefore called scapulimancy.
Xenomancy is the divination the past, present and future by interpreting omens from chance meetings – or strangers that you meet. These strangers can come from anywhere such as events, social gatherings or just out on the streets. This practice is one of the most ancient ones out there.
Turifumy: This is a form of scrying by means of using smoke by interpreting the shapes smoke takes on with incense or other smoke.
Acutomancy - This is where predictions of the future can be made by studying the way pins land on a table covered in powder or flour. The pins - 13 of them, some straight and some bent, will make patterns that can be interpreted by the diviner.
Oomancy is a divination method using eggs. You add an egg white to a glass or bottle of water and a little bit of salt. Then let it sit for a few hours or overnight. You can carefully observe the structures that form. Using your intuition and keeping what information you are inquiring about in mind, you can intuitively find the answers within the shapes that took form.
Technomancy – You can use programs that are online such as tarot readings, runes and i-ching. There are also scrying programs such as Scrycloud that you can scry with to get your information as well. Apparently you can utilize the computer for evocation and invocation as well.
Lithomancy – Colored stones are used for divination. These stones are usually polished and have symbols inscribed on them. The symbols can include ones associated with planets and personal events such as love, money, etc. These may have originally been a precursor to rune stones. Lithomancy is still practiced today using 13 stones.
Prediction with grains of corn was a rather personal method of divination, similar to a method using sand: grains are thrown onto a surface, usually a white canvas but it could even be thrown into water. This is then translated depending on the positions they fall into or whether they float or sink. Grains of corn may also be of different colors. Among all the Indian cultures, the number of kernels cast will be between four and one hundred.
Ogham staves are made from wooden sticks or staves and carved with a letter of the Ogham alphabet. There are 25 of them and each letter has a meaning behind it. This divination method has been in practice for a long time and the Ogham alphabet has been around from approximately the fifth century – named after Ogmos – the Celtic God of eloquence and literacy.
There is a Jewish ritual called Kaparot where the practitioner believes they can transfer any of their sins or evil to a chicken by holding it over their head and swinging it around there head three times. After that, they kill the chicken. The chickens get donated to poor people.
Glossolalia - the practice of speaking in tongues. This is where people begin to speak in a language or languages that are unknown to them or even to others. This is said to be caused from being possessed by an entity. This entity can be a god or a demon - or any entity that you allow to possess you. Many religious believers feel that it is their god who is divinely guiding them and can help to cure others. Recorded cases of glossolalia go back as far as 1100 B.C.
Little red bracelets made of yarn hold many meanings depending on what it is being used for. When you wear a bracelet made out of red yarn or string, it symbolizes blood and was used as a war paint for warriors. Red was painted on the doors of homes for protection. You can even use it as a talisman and charge it with protection energy. Wearing a red yarn bracelet on your left wrist seems to bring in good energies as the left is the side you receive on.
Death of an inanimate object – In certain magical practices, there is a ritual that allows one to put to death an inanimate object to then pay your respects and resurrect it as a living object that will assist you in your practice from that point forward.
There are so many different divination and wacky spiritual methods out there that you can try or at least be entertained reading about. I just wanted to introduce you to a few of these to get your creative divine mind going. Please always keep in mind that whenever practicing any kind of spiritual method, always use psychic protection - ALWAYS! Just want all of you to be safe! Which methods are you interested in?
You are your soul – not just a body. Your soul resides both within and without your body. Your body has two brains and two hearts. Yup, you read that right! Your brain is located in your head and that gives you the capability to process and decipher your sensory input. It sends out waves and takes in information. Your heart is also a type of a brain because it gives off waves of its own and also takes in and processes information. Your brain and heart actually work together to control emotions and body reactions. Scientific research shows that the heart is so powerful and its influence in sending signals to the rest of the body is much more significant than the brain's influence in doing the same thing.
When your soul integrates with your body, it has to lower its natural high vibration and frequency in order to be able to stay in its host for a long period of time. In doing so, it loses many of its functions because of the density of the body and the influence of its environment. This is the reason why children can see ghosts and easily get psychic impressions. Their soul takes time to completely integrate and become stifled by the human condition. It happens to all humans to one degree or another. Some humans stay pretty open to their soul and others get completely shut off. Meditation is a direct key to unlocking your caged soul and accessing not only incredible information, but it can literally take you out of this world giving you powers that are miraculous because you are utilizing both brains and both hearts synchronized as one powerful body and soul super-being.
There is a plethora of reasons to meditate. There are also many different ways that one can meditate. I know that from being a spiritual teacher for decades that the word meditation seems to frighten people away or they think it is not really going to do anything for them – pretty much a waste of the time they feel they don’t already have. This is a huge false belief - if they could only see themselves in a year with an honest effort.
Meditation is indeed a skill, so just like any skill, it takes time to make progressions that will reap bigger benefits; however, just 5 minutes in meditation, even for a brand new beginner can be relaxing and peaceful if you allow it to be. If you sit in meditation worrying about what you feel you should be doing, you might as well just do what you think you should be doing.
Meditation helps greatly to prevent burn-out, prevent illness, prevent depression, promote relaxation, give you a much needed breather – among many other things. My main purpose of this post is not to lecture on all of the benefits and try to persuade you to give meditation a try – although I believe everyone should try it in earnest; my main purpose is to let you know just how powerful meditation can make you – with both yin and yang examples. I do want to touch briefly on some benefits so if you try meditation, you know it is well worth it in any case.
Some physiological benefits of meditating would be a slower heart rate, increased blood flow, obtaining a deeper level of relaxation, reducing high blood pressure, relieving muscle tension, decreasing anxiety and anxiety attacks as well as emotional stress reduction. Meditation reduces pain, enhances immune system, reduces cholesterol levels, improves air flow to the lungs, helps with headaches and migraines, relaxes nervous system, aids in harmonizing endocrine system just to name a few.
The psychological benefits are great too! Some of these include, but are not limited to – becoming more tolerant, controlling anger issues, increasing listening skills, intelligence, productivity, emotional stability, brain wave lucidity, focus, concentration and promotes a better outlook and a better mood. It promotes better self-confidence, creativity and helps to dissolve bad habits. It is a great way to learn to control your thoughts and become happier instead of seeing the bad side of everything. It can be a great aid in curing insomnia as well.
The spiritual benefits are fantastic. Many of these are what you might say are prerequisites to the magical miracles and powers you can create and live in your life. Some of the spiritual benefits are promoting peace of mind even if your environment is in turmoil; helping to keep things in perspective. Meditation provides a deeper understanding of yourself and others, harmonizes your mind, body and spirit and changes your attitude toward life. Meditation helps you to discover your life’s purpose and work towards enlightenment. With meditation, you can gain a greater capacity to love and be loved as well as learn to bypass the ego. Learn how to forgive, heal and to step back to see different paths of opportunity and solutions – to see things in a different light from a new viewpoint. You can learn to communicate with your spirit guide and angels. You can learn to listen with your heart.
I have always taught my students that meditation is not just a way to relax, find peace and get some great health benefits, it is a literally a spiritual doorway – a passage into the gateway of the soul, which in turn, leads to a magical discovery and journey into realms and experiences you never thought possible – maybe only in fairy tales, if even.
When it comes to learning anything beyond your ‘normal’ biological functions and reasoning, meditation is a must. This is because you are actually two separate entities intertwined into one being. Your human biological being that works on its own CPU – the brain, and your soul piece that is your actual super-being, your true self that integrates and melds with your human self. You can do everyday tasks with your human self utilizing your brain to execute learned skills, input sensory data, human reasoning, emotions and instinct. Your soul assists all of your daily goings-on by giving you those sparks of instant amazing ideas, great intuition, nudging you on to do or not do something and giving you subconscious advice. We are used to that happening and just accept it as who we are and how we work. There are those who have strong and exceptional intuitive skills that can go beyond what is considered the ‘norm’ to ‘know’ what may happen ahead of time or see things that aren’t there, etc. These people are more in tune with their soul piece. This is why you will notice that psychics and other people who are highly spiritual will meditate. You can do your daily to-do’s with your physical human body but you can do some pretty awesome things in your soul body – which is really not a body at all.
If you are a beginner, it may be a little frustrating or you may not even know where to begin. Meditation shouldn’t be stressful – it should be relaxing. A quiet room for even five minutes will accomplish something. Just sit and focus on relaxing your body – loosening your muscles from feet to head then just count your breathing. It is really that simple. Yes, you will start thinking about your day, everything you have to do, etc. – but just refocus. That is a very basic start and it builds from there. Once you are a little more experienced, you can begin to talk to you spirit guide and angels. You can learn to work with energy and raise your own energy signature. You can learn to harmonize with different energies and frequencies. You can learn to manipulate energy which will help you to get into your astral body. Once in your astral body, you can learn to travel to places on that realm – talk with spirits and other entities. There is so much to learn, to explore and to create. You will learn to manifest much faster. Your life will change because you will learn so much more about what life really is – you will see into what you perceive as reality and go right through it bringing in knowledge that brings you power and will blow your mind with the truth of life. This will lead to your ability to move into your spirit body and continue to move up, level by level. It is an ongoing journey of amazement, yet it is extremely complex and there will be obstacles and tests all along with way. Not tests from the universe but from yourself – your higher self - which is an enigma all of its own.
Many people see magic as something people do such as pulling rabbits out of hats at a kids show, but there is real magick in the universe. Actually, to be correct – it is not magick at all. The universe just has so many amazing possibilities and things so way out of the range of your craziest sci-fi already built into it. It is just that humans are on a plane of existence and fed certain knowledge to keep you at a human level, so believing in anything that seems outrageous is frowned upon - mostly out of fear of what really could be, combined with fear of who might think you are nuts.
Once you start exploring your own journey, things you could never imagine will become your reality. For the better or for the worst – that is up to you. How you use your new abilities is entirely up to you but you need to learn about the repercussions set up by the universal system itself. Everything is accomplished using your spirit body, your soul piece - and it is all reached, learned, and executed in the spiritual realms. Yes, it can and certainly does affect your physical body and your everyday life – even your future and perhaps your past.
There are some people who dedicate themselves to their spiritual journey so much that their super powers are amazing and they defy the imagination. Your telepathy can become so powerful that you can read minds, you can send thoughts and dreams to others – which you should never do without their permission – remember Mr. Karma. You can influence energy so greatly that you can make objects move, or make them appear with altered aspects. You can heal yourself and others including minimizing or completely nullifying pain. You can bring about what others would consider a true miracle. You can easily obtain information about past, present and future lives – your own and for other people. You can heal or hurt others to a supernatural degree – but once again – Mr. Karma is relentless. Serious and long-standing black magick practitioners can inflict severe damage to someone or worse; however, please do not get the wrong idea about those who practice this art. They are not all out to harm others. There are plenty of people who are devout church goers that inflict pain and suffering. Everyone has both their light and their dark aspects. Heard of others levitating, changing their appearance, becoming able to blend in so much they appear invisible? Just a fairy tale? NOPE! Just some serious and long-term dedication. Spending time in other realms and interacting with all types of entities are something that is indescribably astonishing.
My point is that the impossible can become possible and it is all done in the deep recesses of your biological mind giving way and permission to access your higher self which has access to literally the multi-verse and the primordial. There is no universal law that stops anyone from accessing this information. You can then learn to utilize that information and become very powerful indeed. Meditation is the "magical miracle exercise" literally.
You may not care much about learning to levitate but gaining access to universal knowledge and using that in your human life can bring about many wonderful, positive changes, opportunities, new friends and loves as well as peace, happiness, abundance and your own miracles. If that isn’t a reason to meditate and at least peruse a minor spiritual path – I don’t know what is.
Just an ending note – the more you learn to meditate deeply and access your true abilities, the less time you will need to get into that meditative state in order to accomplish these things; however, once you are at that point in your journey, you would prefer to spend your time in meditation – in that magical place that not many are willing to put effort out to reach and very few will triumph. It is all a matter of what you want, who you want to be and what you are willing to work for. Unfortunately, there are no short-cuts and no cheats to reaching the higher levels of existence but everyone has it in them if they are at that point in their human evolution to pursue it - or if they are not "human" as we know it.
Thanks for reading. Blessing to all and happy meditating!!
Have you lived before? Were you another person living a completely different life than the one you are living now? How many times have you reincarnated? Were you a woman, a man or something else? Did you live on Earth or a place so far away, we cannot even begin to fathom it?
Past lives is a very intriguing subject for anyone who is curious to know who they might have been before, but it is so much more than that. All those lives are lived by your own soul pieces and there is actually a reason as to why you are all of those lives that you lived. Can you imagine how ancient and knowledgeable you really are? If you could only tap into that – ah, but you can! The hardest part is to explore deep enough that you can piece everything together, which is a journey unto itself. Every life you live is still a part of who you are – even if the soul piece that lived it, never connected with the soul piece you are now – but it will eventually. Each life holds many lessons and much knowledge. Each life advances your spirit and increases your power.
I have had many experiences with past lives as I know many of my own. Discovering the ‘you’ that lived these lives are amazing. Looking totally opposite that you do now, acting in ways you never thought you were capable of, living as beings you never even thought existed – it is all very mystifying.
My youngest daughter showed signs of being in touch with her last life as a baby; however, I didn’t realize it until she was a little older and she could communicate it. It seemed like she was having horrible nightmares when she was just a baby. She would be very restless and whimper in her sleep. She would wake up crying terribly and it would be hard to calm her down. As she started to communicate, she showed fear of intruders and fear that the stove burners were not turned off. I would have to bring her around the house showing her that the house was all locked up and secure. I also had to take her over to the stove and show her that it was all fine. She always expressed a love for horses and wanted to be around them. Not long after that, she started talking about her grandmother and how much fun she always had with her. She was extremely fond of this grandmom and loved to share some of her memories with me. These were very vivid memories and you could tell that she loved her grandmom so much. The issue was that she didn’t really know either of her grandmothers. My mom died when my daughter wasn’t quite a year old and my ex’s mom lived a few states away so she never really saw her to know her. This was perplexing as this mysterious grandmother sure was an important part of her life. It wasn’t an imaginary friend as everything she did and talked about was a thing of the past – really far, far in the past. One day when I was hanging out with a friend and my oldest daughter, my youngest daughter came to me crying. She couldn’t hold it in any longer and told me everything she remembered. She told me about the house her grandmom lived in. It was a large white farmhouse with a lot of ground and there was another house on the property; that is where her own parents used to live. There was a stable with many horses that she loved so much. She had a brother that was younger than her. She said one night a bad person set the grounds and the houses on fire. Her grandpop tried to save them. He saved her but couldn’t get her grandmom out in time and she died. When my daughter told me this part – she was crying so hard she could barely talk. Apparently most of the horses died too. After she calmed down a bit, she went on to say that she was a teacher and that she grew up and had two kids. Her brother was killed in a sword fight and she lived to be pretty old before she got sick and died. She then said, “then the next thing I knew was I was here with you – my new mommy.” It was quite an emotional experience and you could clearly see that she felt these emotions and feelings intensely. I did ask her a few things about it in hopes to learn more, but it would really upset her so I left it alone. As she grew older, the memories faded.
Past lives are indeed fascinating and you can discover one or many of yours with the help of past life regression. Past life regression is an effective and safe hypnosis technique that can take you to your past life where you can experience a little or a big part of it - or if you prefer, you can view it as an outsider looking in so that you feel no emotions towards it. There are benefits to experiencing past lives such as discovering why you may have a fear of something in this life or why you have issues that you cannot figure out how they came about. You can then determine the lesson or lessons that you were meant to experience and learn from in that life. You can also heal from any trauma or pain from that life that may be causing you issues in your present life.
A past life is not the same as a parallel life where one of your soul pieces are alive in another realm somewhere in this multi-verse living simultaneously with you now. There are methods to discovering your parallel lives as well but that is for another post. You can have an indefinite number of parallel lives and there is the possibility that your past lives and parallel lives can find their way intertwining into your 'now' life. If that happens, it usually tends to occur in dream states; however, it can slip through the cracks and show up in glimpses and glitches into your life as you are aware of it now.
As a past life regression hypnotist, I have done a lot of regressions and have found very amazing life stories as well as learned a lot about other origins and types of beings to say the least. As a psychic, this type of regression validates my psychic findings as well. I can bring people to various lifetimes in one session or if there is something particular they want to explore, I can help them to do that as well. Each life explored holds meaning and after the exploration, I always try to help my client understand the lessons that were learned from that life and then heal what needs to be healed. Not only do I take my clients to visit their past lives, but I take them to the places we go in between lives to find out more about that as well. Many times, they meet their own spirit guide too.
One client was shocked to discover that they were on fire in the life they were exploring. The fire wasn’t hurting them though. Their body was made of a biological-flame and continuously burned on a planet that was also aflame. Nothing about the planet this life took place on was anything remotely like it is here. Many years later, I had another client that spoke of such a life – they were also a flame being. This person spoke about how the beings also had different color flames according to a hierarchy. This is just a quick example of how you can discover something completely unexpected or even something you would never even consider.
Most of my clients explored lives where they were other human people – the majority of those lives were lived here on Earth. Usually very spiritually advanced people will go on to discover more unconventional lives such as the fire beings because they have advanced their acceptance of what exists and its possibilities, but you do not need to be a spiritual guru to find amazing lifetimes.
Many people have discovered lives where they were not humanoid life forms at all. Some were animals and other forms that were very difficult for them to try to explain.
If you can’t get to a past life regression hypnotist, there is something you can try on your own to make some progress towards discovering your past lives. There are meditations on YouTube and other people on the net have some you can try. This could work but the hard thing about it is that each person is a unique individual and that journey needs to be individually guided. The meditations are for the general public to use so what might work on one, may not work on another. You can play around with them to see how it helps. This also can be more effective if you are a person who is experienced in meditation.
You need to be in a relaxed state and in a place where you can be undisturbed. This is a must for past life regression. You must also be able to be aware enough to guide your own thoughts. Have an idea of what it is you would like to explore. Is there something in your life that you just can’t explain? Maybe this is something you would like to check out. If not, and you just want to know who you were one time in the past, then pick a time where you lived a happy life or a successful life. Set that as your intention.
Try this method of PLR (Past Life Regression) - Put on some relaxing meditation music or whatever you can slow down and relax to. If you are an empath, use music that will take your senses to the level where you feel that music deeply. After you are relaxed quite a bit, surround yourself with a bubble of protection light from the universe and then feel a swirling wind come and lift that bubble up with you inside it. Ask the guiding light to move and carry you up and away to a life where you lived a happy one – or whatever you set your intention to. The swirling wind will carry you where the light guides it to. The light will be your intention and the wind is your time machine. As you begin to travel way up, the bubble is filled with such bright white light, you can no longer see anything but that light. You are perfectly safe. When you feel the bubble land, the light will slowly dissipate and you will be able to see all around you. Step out of the bubble and realize that this is the happy life that you once lived. You are now able to walk all around and discover this world that you lived in. Step out of the bubble as the person you were in that life. Look down at your feet – what kind of shoes are on your feet or do you even have shoes? Walk around and observe the people. What period clothing are they wearing. What do they look like? You can talk to people and see who knows you. You can walk into a house that was once yours and go to the table where there is an envelope with your name on it. You can literally make anything happen.
This is how your subconscious mind extracts information from your archived memory and from your soul. The more you use this method, the stronger your connection with the higher realms and your soul will be. The sky is the limit – or actually – nothing is the limit except what you refuse to believe in. Trust your first impressions and ask questions of yourself in this world such as, “What did I learn from this life?” Ask to be brought to places you want to see – like what made this such a happy life. You can observe anything at all! There is nothing to stop you except yourself.
When you are done exploring, simply step back into your bubble and come back the same way you got there – or if you want, go explore another life. Be sure to write down everything you felt, saw, heard, experienced and everyone you met. This will help you to unlock more next time.
It is true that having a PLR professional can make a difference, but this is a good place to start. Past life regressions take about an hour and a half to really get somewhere in making discoveries so take your time and don't give up only after one or two tries. You need to trust your intuition and follow that but if you can get to a PLR hypnotist - it is a fantastic way to open up a new path in your life.
This is a very sensitive and delicate subject so it is with great respect for those who have passed on that I write this, as well as for those that are left behind that are trying to cope with this type of death. I deal with the paranormal on a daily basis so I have spent decades working with others on both sides of the spectrum – the living and the deceased. I see how a dark death affects all involved and the many issues that both the living and the deceased are trying to work through and get past in order to move on with their lives. It is very sad and tragic indeed as some spend the rest of their living lives trying to get out of the despair and the deceased can very well spend decades or centuries doing the same.
A dark death is when a person dies by tragic means such as a suicide or murder. Accidents are also tragic and can fall into this category as well. Even though death by illness is also very tragic, it is not usually considered a dark death but it could turn into one if certain factors are present.
A suicide is one of the most difficult deaths to deal with. It is certainly more than a tragedy as this person was consumed in the darkness so much that the only way they could imagine peace was to take their own life. The person could appear to be fine on the outside, but inside there is great turmoil and their rational thinking where their life is concerned, is quite clouded. There are so many different scenarios when it comes to the disposition and circumstances of the suicide victim. Also, how they handle situations and see outside conditions plays a big part. Their influences, past and present, are part of it as well. When it comes down to it, no one is actually responsible for another person taking their own life except the person who takes their own life. To a person who is in that state of mind, anything at all could be that one last straw that pushes them over to the other side. If that person was serious about suicide and is left untreated, it will eventually happen. Nothing else but powerful intervention will take away that feeling they have. Many times, intervention does not help either. It needs to be both a counseling and spiritual intervention; however, many times the person contemplating suicide can hide what they are truly feeling to keep others from becoming suspicious.
There is a lot of blame that goes on with suicide deaths on both sides. The suicide victim could place the blame on a bad upbringing, their spouse, money, the way they look, their bad luck, their life in general and a slew of other reasons. It is usually a combination of issues – long-term issues that they never learned to process or handle. They are not thinking the way someone else, who would not attempt suicide does. They are plagued with severe depression or a similar concern. A person who suffers from long-term negative emotional states draws to them negative energy. This negative energy will continuously gain strength and take a hold on the person suffering. If this is left untreated, the energy will attach itself to the host as it will feed off this host and become even stronger. Once it reaches a certain point, the negative energy becomes a mass, and a thought-form of the depressed energy will be born - an energetic ethereal entity that will feed off fear, anguish and depression to its already stricken host. If it is left to continue on, other malevolent energies will become very attracted to this host. They will assist on feeding the host negative things in order for them to feed off the reaction this fear and negative emotions will cause. It becomes a never-ending vicious time-bomb cycle. Some fend it off for a lifetime of complete misery and suicidal thoughts and maybe even attempts, but some just cannot endure and end it. There is always a huge negative mass around suicide victims.
Unfortunately when a person steps in to break the universal law of physical life, they do not move on to the usual afterlife until they have found their way out of the darkness. Life in itself can be very harsh but we do our best to not lose our minds and carry on every day to do the best we can do and find the little things that we enjoy to keep ourselves sane. For those who could not manage to do this while they were alive, they need to still complete this task before they are truly released to the peace they were so desperately searching for to begin with. The problem is compounded though because now in their deceased form, the task is more difficult to accomplish and their emotional state will now be even more overcome with despair. I’m sorry if that sounds very harsh but it is truth as well as the fact that I am hoping that others will see that they need to handle their issues while they are alive and that what they feel is taking the easy way out or relieving their suffering, is really just signing up for something much worse before it gets better. It is better to be brave and face life in order to move on to peace when your natural time has come to move on. The suicide victim witnesses the pain and suffering of the loved ones that are grieving for them. They see, feel and hear their suffering. This is part of their lesson for breaking this contract or law of the universal life system.
For those who chose suicide but suffered a mental illness that impaired their behavior – depending on the type of mental illness, these victims usually move on to their afterlife destination instead of moving into the realm where they stay until they work through the issues they had in order to move on.
For the loved ones of a suicide that are left behind, they suffer so much. It is usually quite a shock that their loved one was just here and left so quickly, and in such a horrific way. There is a lot of guilt and blame that starts happening – even anger and many other mixed emotions that will surface. Even though this will not help the situation and only make it worse for the person grieving, they still beat themselves up trying to wonder what they could have or should have done. The person grieving can still do something very important to help the suicide victim. While they may not be alive in the sense that they are physical, they still need as much help as they can get in order to get them out of the realm of what some refer to as purgatory but is really like a holding realm. They are still in their mindset from the life they just lived and there is a lot more pain and confusion. If they don’t block out their senses with their own grief, they will hear you and see you. It is so important that their loved ones speak to them and guide them so that they can leave and move forward into peace but it is a healing process. It could really help to get a caring psychic to assist – one that is familiar with this process. This process can take a very long time.
Another dark death is due to murder. A murder victim never wanted to die in the first place and they are taken from their life so suddenly. For this reason, many murder victims do not even realize that they are now deceased. They can go on for quite some time in this ‘dream state’ of sorts feeling like they are still alive living their life – even though it would seem to us that it would be impossible not to know that something is extremely wrong. It is just as if they are living in a dream where things seem to make sense in that dream, but it is only after you wake up you realize how things were really weird. They could even view you as a ghost. A murder victim that does not understand that they left their physical life will stay on the Earthly realm and not move forward until they ‘wake’ up. This could happen in time but that could literally take hundreds of years. It is best if they get assistance as quickly as possible after their death if you suspect they did not move on.
For those murder victims that do realize they have been taken away from their life too soon – many of them are angry or feel just as their loved ones do – that they didn’t say goodbye, that they had more to do, that they don’t want to leave. It is very tragic and sad for both the living and deceased but once again, grief counseling for both the living and the dead can be of tremendous help. Can you indeed counsel the deceased – the answer is yes. It may not be like it will for a living person and it is much more difficult to try to communicate, and then in such a way that will be effective, but it can be done. I have sent many deceased people back home to their proper afterlife. This however, can also be a timely process.
For the living person that is left behind, it can seem impossible to move forward because it is hard to get out of the darkness of negative emotions that are so strong - such as extreme anger, severe depression and anxiety as well as feelings of justice and revenge. This is all normal but it needs to be healed. Sure it takes quite some time, but to hold on to these feelings will not only continue to interrupt their life, but will surely affect the loved ones that are around them. They also have to be careful that these strong negative feelings do not attract negative energy that will form into an intelligence or thought-form. They can also actually bind their deceased loved one to the Earth plane as well – not allowing them to move forward to their heavenly place. A person wouldn’t want to hold their loved one back from moving forward, and it truly hurts them to see their living loved ones in a state where they hold on to anger and vengeful thoughts. It is understandable, but healing is of the utmost importance for the living and deceased.
Even when a loved one moves on to where they are supposed to be – they do not harbor any ill feelings towards the person who took them from their life. It is a tremendously difficult mindset to fathom as a physical being in this life, but when a person passes on and become just their soul energy once again, they see the life path and lessons set forth for everyone. There was a reason this interaction occurred even though it is impossible to wrap the mind around that. Negative emotions are viewed as a human trait but have no purpose in a non-tainted soul’s intellect. Learn to live and love your life! Let the people who love you and are still in your life see you happy – don’t make them worry about you; don’t radiate that negative energy towards them. Also, let your loved one who is no longer with you be happy - as your happiness is their happiness and your sadness hurts them.
Accident victims are also a very tragic death, but there is a borderline there in what deems them dark or not. A car accident is not considered a dark death unless the victim planned a suicide that way or they were under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Accidents such as an overdose of drugs, is also considered a dark death.
If a person causes an accident because they were under the influence of drugs or alcohol and they die, they are subject to the same penalty as a suicide. If they happen to kill other innocent people, they will not only have to deal with and heal from their own issues that caused it in the first place and the grief of their loved ones, but they will also have to deal with the grief of the people they killed and their families as well. Incidentally, a person who commits premeditated murder also receives a similar holding place where they will experience the pain and suffering of their victim as well as all of the people that loved the victim - not to mention their own family.
If a person dies of an unintentional drug overdose, it is also treated as a suicide. It may not be as harsh, as the person did not intend on taking their own life - but the darkness that is with them in the first place will still stay with them in death until they can displace it. They still must witness the pain and suffering of those that loved them and then heal from it before they can move forward. This also could take many decades or more if healing intervention does not occur.
Death is a hard enough subject in itself but a dark death is the hardest to handle. Dark death isn’t labeled that way just because of the awful circumstances that caused it, but also because there is a lot of dark energy present just waiting to be fed from the deceased and from the living. It wants to cause more darkness. Death is the paranormal and in the world of the paranormal, there is still light and dark. Neither light nor dark death doesn’t always guarantee a cleansing of negative energy. I wanted to bring awareness so that people can free themselves of the darkness. Always keep in mind that knowledge is power and gives you the ability to take control of your own life. The deceased can hear what you tell them, they can see you and they can be influenced by you. Show them your love and don’t keep yourself or your loved ones bound to darkness. Work on keeping darkness out of your life now so that your afterlife will be an easy transition.
Keep in mind that there are no set rules and regulations that govern the ways people pass on. Each and every soul is handled in regard to their circumstances. How they lived their life, how they were towards others, their mindset, what types of energies they attracted into their life, their heart, their spiritual experience – and a lot of other variables go into each single case of how the deceased will experience their afterlife and beyond. Even the experiences of previous lives will play a big part of this. There are things you can do in this lifetime to be sure your afterlife transition is the easiest. How do you know what to do? Meditate and look in your heart. All of the answers are there!
I send love, light, healing angels and blessings to all the living that lost their loved ones and to the deceased who are working to find their way.
Grieving is the hardest thing you will ever have to live through. Everyone grieves differently and for different lengths of time. It is all a very personalized experience. There is no right or wrong way to grieve but the one thing it certainly is, is excruciatingly painful. I know from my own personal experiences having lost my father, mother, two sisters and a husband. It pains me as a caring person and as a psychic/medium/empath, when I see others grieving. I just want to reach out and do something to ease their pain. I suppose that is why I decided to do this post on grieving and the loss of a beloved one. Mother’s Day has just recently passed and I was reading through my social media accounts seeing so many people missing their moms – as am I.
When a person dies, the ones they leave behind go through a lot of pain trying to cope with the loss and huge change it makes in their lives. It is hard to come to terms knowing you will no longer be able to see that person again. Yes, they live on in your memories and in your heart but they are no longer tangible to hug, kiss and hold. It may not be the same, but that person that is no longer with us just made a transformation from one type of reality into another one. Depending on what type of human they were in this reality and their circumstances when they passed on, will determine their immediate afterlife experience. They need to adjust to their transition just as you do. In any case, they are closer than you may think.
So many people tend to blame themselves for things they did or didn’t do when the person they loved passed away. They start with the ‘what ifs’ and ‘I wish I would/wouldn’t have’ or ‘I never go to tell them’ kind of thing. It is really natural to do that. People will literally punish themselves over everything they can possibly think of that they feel bad about. No one is perfect and in all honesty, you shouldn’t beat yourself up about it. When a person passes on, most are greeted by loved ones who have previously passed. Some are greeted by angels or appropriate entities to guide them and help them to make their transition.
One thing that I have always found to happen is that the loved one who passed will attend their own funeral. They will stick around the same day or next day to try to comfort you. If no service is held, they will come back for a very brief time to say goodbye, but please keep in mind that this is not a final goodbye – it never is. They will and do come back again to keep an eye on you and visit.
After the funeral is complete, the deceased makes their way to their new destination and has a reunion with those who they have waited a long time to see. Even if one of their loved ones has passed a very long time ago and is now in another life, they still visit with them because we all have the capability to be out of our body. The soul will leave the body during sleep to join this joyous reunion. The judgment that we hear about is really our own judgment that we perform upon reviewing the life we just lived to see if we met our goals and life lessons. Some spirits go through a stage where they need to recuperate from their last life a little longer than others may have to.
When a person dies and moves on to their new destination – or goes home or heaven if that is what you refer to it as, that spirit not only retains all of the memories of the life they just lived, but they also regain all of the memories from any other life no matter where it was or how long ago it was. They retain memories of everything that happens between lives as well. They have the ability to come back to visit you or anyone else they choose to, even if that person or being is not of this world or dimension – or even universe. Time is something that doesn’t apply to them as well but in order for us to understand better, time moves faster there than it does here. To them, you will be back with them in no time. It is like you took a few months vacation but will be back soon. To us – decades go by and it feels like a very long time.
Your deceased loved one has other abilities once they pass on as well. They understand your life path – probably better than you do. They can read your spiritual beacon – as well as other entities – and know what life lessons you are going through. They have a deep understanding of why you did what you did or didn’t do what you didn’t do. They are free from the burden of guilt, hate, jealousy – they are not seeing something you may have done as mean or however you feel they may have felt about it. They just understand the human condition but they can see into your heart so if you love them, they will know it and feel it. Something else they can do is hear you – and see you. You can and should talk to them. If you are feeling bad about something – go ahead and talk to them about it. If you are upset because you didn’t say goodbye, them tell them how you feel. Maybe you won’t hear their response; maybe you won’t see their face or feel that hug but they are there. Maybe you will hear/see/feel or sense something. Either way, they are really there and they can really understand what you are saying and feeling. I have had EVP after EVP of spirits telling me they can hear and see their loved ones all the time. There is no reason to feel guilty or bad. Also, it is never too late to ‘make up’ with someone or express your feelings. They totally get it – even more than you may understand this to be because they now are a totally spiritual being capable of supernatural thoughts and perception.
If a person dies but does not realize they are deceased, they will retain the focus of the life they were just living. This means that they feel they are still alive and they do not have any memories of any of their past lives or what happens in between those lives. They are more than likely a little confused because they will usually notice something just isn’t quite right; however, time still is not ticking away like it does here so they may feel the way we do when we are in a dream state. Things make sense in the dream but when you wake up, you are like – ‘what the heck’? They won’t say ‘what the heck’ till they ‘wake up’. If your loved one is constantly around, they may not be aware that they have passed. Of course don’t jump to conclusions because many spirits hang around a lot at first.
Don’t become upset if your loved one doesn’t seem to come around at all. This does not mean they are not there. Many times our grieving can block our senses from tuning into their energies so we may not think they are there but they really are. Also, as time passes – your loved one may not come to visit quite as often as they may have before and there are many reasons for this. As time moves forward, they become more and more involved with their new life. They could take on projects or work as a guide for someone else. They could also reincarnate but it seems there tends to be an average of about 80 years before doing that. There are no set rules though. They could resume things they had interests in from before their carnation. Even if they are busy doing lots of things, they will still come when you call them and they do still come for most special occasions and holidays. They still hear when you speak to them so if they are on your mind, let them know.
Many deceased loved ones appear to you in dreams because it is much easier for them to appear visible and audible in your dream subconscious state than in your waking conscious state. In dreams you can speak with them and hug them. It is also easier for them because they can more easily tune into your subconscious frequency plus while you are asleep, your conscious blocks are not as strongly enforced.
Late at night is a great time to speak with your loved ones but any time is fine really. At night, you might be able to sense a response better than during the day. This is because things quiet down at night. The house is quieter; everyone is slowing down and wrapping up the day. During these more quiet times, you feel more relaxed and therefore are more open and aware of subtle things. Your loved one will usually communicate in very subtle ways. Picture them in your mind or look at a picture of them. Ask them to come to you. Try to imagine that they are right in front of you. You can place a shadow such as a silhouette in front of your mind’s eye or you can just know that they are there. These are some techniques to help you to focus and tune in. Take the time to use your senses to tune into their energy. Do you feel their presence? Do you feel as though someone is watching you? Can you hear anything? Do you smell a certain scent? Keep in mind that what you will more than likely perceive are psychic impressions. These impressions are very subtle and they are not of a physical substance. If you sense them there, it will not be a touch but a gut feeling or your hairs standing on end – maybe you get some goose bumps. If you hear them, it will be more like when you have a conversation between you and another person and then you retrieve that conversation. You can hear that person’s voice in your head but your physical ears do not hear it. Psychic hearing is when the spirit talks directly to your mind – just like the conversation recall in your head. You could even have a special song pop into your mind. You could get little flashes of information in your mind’s eye. You might visualize a color, a symbol or picture something. You could smell perfume, cigarettes or any scent that may be associated with them. Sometimes, what you may get from them may not seem like something they would send you but it may be all that they are capable of. This was the case with my niece. When her father died, he would leave the scent of apples to all that he came to visit but he didn’t seem to be too particularly fond of apples nor did that really hold any meaning to her or anyone in the family. They just came to know that was him and now that he is capable of producing more intricate manifestations, he uses apples because it creates that warm feeling to his family members. I even got an EVP for my niece from a seance session we did where he left the EVP message – apple.
Another important matter to address is a hard one but many people do not realize that an extreme sense of grief could actually prevent your loved one from moving on. Some people actually bind a loved one to the Earth plane, not allowing them to move on to the place of peace where they should be. They don’t usually do this on purpose but they are so desperate to not let them go, their loved one becomes trapped. It is very important to address extreme grieving and denial issues with the death of a loved one for both the mental health of yourself and the future life of your loved one. If they are already deceased, then you would want them to live as happy as possible so you need to let them move on. They also want to see you live as happy as you can. It hurts them to see you so depressed and miserable.
The best way to handle the loss of a loved one is to not blame yourself for anything, talk to your loved one often, know that they are there with you still, know that you will see them again, handle extreme denial and depression and meditate. Spend time with other family members making wonderful memories. Give yourself permission to grieve and forgive yourself or the deceased for things you might be regretting or holding grudges for. Enjoy the memories you have together. It is the end of a cycle and the beginning of a new life for all involved. Take your time and don’t let anyone tell you that you have to get over it or just move on. The loss of a loved one will always be there with you but it is very true that time does make it easier – believe it or not.
I felt so alone, lost and abandoned when my mom passed away 21 years ago. When she was dying, she was in an induced coma so she wouldn't feel pain. When I went to the hospital to say goodbye, she managed to lift an eyelid and give me a subtle smile which should have been impossible for her to do. I told her that I loved her but that it was ok to go home and be happy because I was going to be just fine. I knew I had to make sure she felt ok to leave because she was hanging onto life even though there was nothing else that could have saved her at that point. She passed on shortly after. I felt as though someone had dropped me off in some far away foreign place where I was all alone and totally desolate. It took me almost a year and a half before I could lift my mood almost back to what it was and my ex-husband used to tell me over and over again that I just needed to get over it. Now, when I remember my mom, I smile and remember so many of the wonderful and fantastic times we shared. It doesn’t make me cry; it makes me smile. Sure, after 21 years I may get a tear or two from time to time but she is a wonderful memory and a person that I will always be honored to have had in my life. I still have her in my life as she comes to see me and it is fantastic.
I have received many EVPs from spirits of deceased loved ones for so many of my clients. The spirits leave messages of love and comfort. I have had EVPs saying I love you, don’t worry, they confirm they are happy and well, they say that they watch over their loved ones, they say don’t feel bad, they are near them, they know they miss them, they miss them too, it was their time to go. They confirmed they were present at their loved ones birthday. They confirmed they were at their own funeral. They confirmed information to validate their passing. There are so many EVPs that I have received to back up my own psychic communications with thousands of entities so I can say with confidence that the ones you love and miss with all your heart are still there – in a different form – but there to love and comfort you. They want you to live your life and be happy. Seeing that is what makes them happy so live your life and let them see your smile. Let them live happy too. You will see them again but not until you are meant to.
I'm Cher, a psychic medium, paranormal investigator, extensive paranormal researcher, spiritual teacher, intuitive counselor, hypnotist of past life regression,writer, exorcist in training and founder of PsychicMyst Paranormal Network. I have over 37 years of total professional experience.